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  Have you noticed ? the GB's purposeful Tone while speaking??

  by freewilly01 in

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  after being absent for years from the borgorg i really noticed the purposeful fake tone of the voices of the gb.

  i was just surfing cults and cult leaders and found an interesting link with the gb and cult leaders...... in the satirist:.

  the article was:.

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  PARENTING AS A XBORG ORG .........HOW DIFF IS IT FOR YOU?

  by freewilly01 in

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  i am a proud parent of a great kid..........fortunately raised as a non jw .. i could see at an early age that manipulation and control just wasn't working for me as a parent.. i remember calling at a door years ago ( i can still remeber the exact door and neighbourhood, so it left quite the impression on me) the householder said simply : thats just wrong to bring your child with you they are way too young to be brought into a religious debate and to take sides on issues like this , where's your head at?

  i remember thinking whew where is my head at?.

  then i recalled that friends of ours in a local congregation where chastised by an overly aggressive judgemental elder, one of those who didn't allow their kids to watch tv or wear any clothing that might be construed as worldly.. he accused our friends 14 yr old daughter of looking like a prostitute because her skirt was two inches above her knee.

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  JW's a RELIGION based on PERFORMANCE! How dangerous is that???

  by freewilly01 in

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  i have come to realize that this religion is based almost solely on performance and that is the most dangerous.. i always felt that as a person or jw (while an active witness)that i was always just as good as my last assignment, comment at the watchtower meeting, feild service report.. this left me with a huge identity crisis in the borgorg......... i really didn't know who the hell i was?.

  did any of you feel similair?

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  UNCONDITIONAL LOVE? DID YOU EVER RECIEVE IT IN THE BORGORG? DO YOU HAVE IT IN YOUR LIFE NOW?

  by freewilly01 in

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  i always felt the lack of it in my life in the borgorg did you?.

  what does unconditional love mean to you?.

  how important is it to you?.

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  WHAT HAS HELPED HEALED CURED YOUR BITTERNESS WITH THE BORG?

  by freewilly01 in

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  is there or has there been anything that has aided you in your quest to rid yourself of the bitterness and resentment of the jw's .

  i know for some it has appeared that they have a newfound religion or religious belief, but that is not the case with myself.. for some maybe visiting these sites encourages them to shed those miserable memories?

  for me it just builds more resentment.

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  WHAT WAS YOUR AHA! MOMENT THATIT WAS TIME TO EXIT THE BORG?

  by freewilly01 in

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  i had a huge light bulb on moment as i wasy in therapy dealing with a nasty anxiety disorder for many years and having a huge trigger in my life finally silenced.

  it was almost the last thing that i thought i would end up doing expecially if you asked my wife and myself even a year before our decision to " live " thats how i view it not decision to leave...........it was a decision to live.. .

  my therapist psychiatrist asked me who are you?

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