@leavingwt I assumed it was the lights ... I usually take them down every spring but this year I said, ah, to hell with it.
FinchAndWeston
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I too have been charged with apostasy! Stunned.
by FinchAndWeston inmy wife and i got a letter sent to me stating we are being called before a judical hearing to discuss allegations of apostasy!
we haven't gone to the meeting in 5 years.
are the jw's on a witchhunt lately?
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I too have been charged with apostasy! Stunned.
by FinchAndWeston inmy wife and i got a letter sent to me stating we are being called before a judical hearing to discuss allegations of apostasy!
we haven't gone to the meeting in 5 years.
are the jw's on a witchhunt lately?
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@Black Sheep wow great letter!
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I too have been charged with apostasy! Stunned.
by FinchAndWeston inmy wife and i got a letter sent to me stating we are being called before a judical hearing to discuss allegations of apostasy!
we haven't gone to the meeting in 5 years.
are the jw's on a witchhunt lately?
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FinchAndWeston
we hadn't had any visits for a long time. we have had lights (the white ones that look like icicles) for a while. i didn't think much of it. it was on my mind to send a DA letter. Is it too late?
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I too have been charged with apostasy! Stunned.
by FinchAndWeston inmy wife and i got a letter sent to me stating we are being called before a judical hearing to discuss allegations of apostasy!
we haven't gone to the meeting in 5 years.
are the jw's on a witchhunt lately?
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FinchAndWeston
wow. so lights = apostasy? I would have thought just DF. but apostasy? isn't that extreme. honestly I don't care. its the family members still in that i care about.
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I too have been charged with apostasy! Stunned.
by FinchAndWeston inmy wife and i got a letter sent to me stating we are being called before a judical hearing to discuss allegations of apostasy!
we haven't gone to the meeting in 5 years.
are the jw's on a witchhunt lately?
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My wife and I got a letter sent to me stating we are being called before a judical hearing to discuss allegations of apostasy! We haven't gone to the meeting in 5 years. Are the JW's on a witchhunt lately? Is anyone who doesn't go to meetings being branded apostate? We got on the radar and we don't know how. They saw the christmas lights hung outside. Is this an act of apostasy? Should we ignore the letter or respond. Comments?
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by jambon1 ini had nice friends that i chose.
i loved them & they loved me.
we had some nice friends.. but i do find it difficult to be extreemly close to people who stand by the rules of d/f.. my worldly friends are astounded that modern day people treat others like this.. i have found lovely friends in the 'wicked world'.
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FinchAndWeston
Don't be mislead. In the Jworld, you do not have friends, you have conditional acquaintances that will only be around you if you meet the minimum conditions set out by the Org. These conditional acquaintances are trained to leave you if you do not meet the conditions.
Not out in service? You are not good association.
Not having perfect attendance to meetings? You are not good association.
Not commenting in meetings? You are not good association.
Going out in service, commenting in meetings, perfect attendance? You are worth of having friends.
Honestly, you don't need friends like that. Friends are the ppl that are there in the good and bad.
A good friend will come bail you out of jail, but a true friend will be sitting next to you saying...'Damn, that was fun! Yet a JW friend will be the one abandoning you in your time of need!
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by FinchAndWeston inhi, everyone, just wanted to say hi to y'all.
i've been lurking for a long time... .
i only wished i had visited sites like these before!
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FinchAndWeston
yeah - funny how this site just draws you in . i like the energy in this forum. always an interesting read, here, that's for sure! i love how everyone here is from the JWorld and can relate to each other's pain.
p.s. i added this site to my RSS reader last year and i'm constantly checking for new posts. yes, i have been lurking for a while.
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by FinchAndWeston inhi, everyone, just wanted to say hi to y'all.
i've been lurking for a long time... .
i only wished i had visited sites like these before!
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thanks for the words of encouragement. nice to know i'm not alone. when i was DF'ed, it was horrible. first time out in the 'world', no friends to speak of as most were from the cong. i had some 'worldly' friends, but i used to hate calling them 'worldly' - as they had some sort of disease or somthing. lol. labeling is a technique religions use to create in-groups/out-groups and a sense of alienation - "us versus them". i considered my non-jw friends better than some JW friends cuz when the chips were down, they were there, not the jw's.
mind you, i did make some really awesome friends in the JWs and I would be lying if i said i didn't miss them, even now. i came back, but found it was not the same. everyone treats you like a 'use-to-be-DF'ed' and it's a label you never lose. sigh.
mouthy, religilously speaking, i threw out the 'baby, the water and the tub' when i decided to fade.
i've been reading a lot, thinking a lot and generally experiencing life for the first time. i need to clear out the old before i bring in the new. dunno where i'll be in 5 to 10 years, and i'm perfectly fine with that.
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by FinchAndWeston inhi, everyone, just wanted to say hi to y'all.
i've been lurking for a long time... .
i only wished i had visited sites like these before!
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yeah, i never understood how some seats were 'reserved' before 8:00am at DCs. I used to line up at 7:30am, which was late by JW standards, btw, to get "decent seats". i found the whole situation untheocratic. my wife and i used to hope and pray they would change the situation so that families with multiple kids got the aisles either by assignment or by "brotherly love". sigh. i needed the whole morning program to recover from the seating fiasco.
then there was the 2pm stretch on sunday. please tell me i wasn't the only one that just had to nod off for at least an hour. why would they choose the most monotonic bro's for that time slot! ppl, please! by sunday at 2, the coffee long ran out, you were tired and exhasted from already 3 days ... seriously!
in the end, you could always catch up on the latest JW buzz at the next service meeting, making the whole situation of going to DCs kinda pointless, for me, anyways.
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by FinchAndWeston inhi, everyone, just wanted to say hi to y'all.
i've been lurking for a long time... .
i only wished i had visited sites like these before!
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i'm ok with "seen as slightly worldly and not elligible for positions of privilege"