Cold Steel. I won't reveal more personal information that this: I DID live in a regime like those inspired in 1984. As a foreigner, I had many perks that the "rank and file" didn't. And, I didn't have to do the things the average people had to. You could touch sadness in the air. I know what I am talking about. Did you ever read the story of the East German female politician who was shocked to learn that the file the Stasi had on her had one informant, "HARALD", who happened to be her husband? She knew the Stasi had a file on her; that was not news. WHO the informer was, that was the big shock.
I am afraid you are misinformed. There are many people who do not walk away from the Watchtower because they know they would lose people they love. I am not in the Watchtower, and will never be, and I don't say who I am because I know the person I came here for would never speak to me again if this person knew I am posting here. Some people in this forum can't reveal their wish to leave the religion to their wives or husbands or children, else they would lose them. Did you read the post by Mouthy? The one in which she is exultant because this 81 year old lady finally got a phone call from her 63 year old daughter? That is why many people are stuck in the society. And that is why so many of their youth leave as soon as they can afford to leave.