Welcome! My boys went through a similiar situation and because I was such a die hard jw it forced them to live double lives, which in turn caused them alot of anxiety. I controlled their internet use so much, that they really didn't have much support. Definately make some nonjw friends, watch what you say about the org, and it may seem silly now, but sock some money away. You never know what tomorrow brings and I want you to be prepared. We are here for ya, kid!
littlebird
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by shadowolf ini am new here this is my first post but ive been looking at some of the topics here for 2 or 3 months.
well i guess i should give yall a backround of myself.
i am a teenager, so i cant tell my family(mostly jws) how i feel.
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littlebird
Welcome to the rest of your life! Here's to a new beginning ....
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Im finally leaving my jw husband.
by littlebird insome of you know i have struggled with this for awhile.
i really do believe in marriage and the committment, however, sometimes enough is enough.. his endless preaching at me and calling me and my (adult) children satan has me realizing that this situation is not going to get better.
the other day he kicked my son out of the house for wearing a cap, in his car, with a skull on it.
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Thank you Quentin, right after the pictures comment, he then wanted me to stay and pay half of my sons rent, apparently, he accuses our son as the cause of our problems. I cant get moved til the 3rd, so this is going to be rough.
It amazes me how few friends I really have, I've gotten more support here then from people I see on a regular basis. With exception of a handle ful of people, I feel pretty alone, except for here. Thanks everybody.
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Im finally leaving my jw husband.
by littlebird insome of you know i have struggled with this for awhile.
i really do believe in marriage and the committment, however, sometimes enough is enough.. his endless preaching at me and calling me and my (adult) children satan has me realizing that this situation is not going to get better.
the other day he kicked my son out of the house for wearing a cap, in his car, with a skull on it.
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Im really hurting today, he just told me to take the kids pictures cause he doesn't have any good memories anymore. What an ass! I guess he has the "friends" coming over the day after I move out to paint and re decorate. He just wants to erase us. You are right moshe, I need the best lawyer, and yeah let him enjoy the gift of singleness, any vulture sister that wants him will get what she deserves!
I wish you guys were here, I could use a beer and a laugh.
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Im finally leaving my jw husband.
by littlebird insome of you know i have struggled with this for awhile.
i really do believe in marriage and the committment, however, sometimes enough is enough.. his endless preaching at me and calling me and my (adult) children satan has me realizing that this situation is not going to get better.
the other day he kicked my son out of the house for wearing a cap, in his car, with a skull on it.
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littlebird
Thanks oracle, I look forward to better times, for sure.
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Im finally leaving my jw husband.
by littlebird insome of you know i have struggled with this for awhile.
i really do believe in marriage and the committment, however, sometimes enough is enough.. his endless preaching at me and calling me and my (adult) children satan has me realizing that this situation is not going to get better.
the other day he kicked my son out of the house for wearing a cap, in his car, with a skull on it.
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littlebird
Thank you Quentin Im also glad my sons are grown too. They are supportive of me leaving their dad.
Thank you mattieu! I appreciate the support so much.
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Im finally leaving my jw husband.
by littlebird insome of you know i have struggled with this for awhile.
i really do believe in marriage and the committment, however, sometimes enough is enough.. his endless preaching at me and calling me and my (adult) children satan has me realizing that this situation is not going to get better.
the other day he kicked my son out of the house for wearing a cap, in his car, with a skull on it.
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littlebird
Lady Lee, I feel like you wrote that for me, thank you. I have never thought about it that way.
jamie I havent taken the test yet, I guess I have to register for it.
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Im finally leaving my jw husband.
by littlebird insome of you know i have struggled with this for awhile.
i really do believe in marriage and the committment, however, sometimes enough is enough.. his endless preaching at me and calling me and my (adult) children satan has me realizing that this situation is not going to get better.
the other day he kicked my son out of the house for wearing a cap, in his car, with a skull on it.
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littlebird
Thank you guys sooooooooooooo much. Its amazing to me how many of you are going through similar things. It made me laugh those of you who brought up the lack of bed bugs being mentioned in Matt. 24, Ha!
Mouthy, I definately want to live more abundantly, thanks for the reminder.
I will look up the links a couple of you left for me, this evening.
Quirky- its so sad that you have to worry about losing your grandchildren, whatever happenned to "honor you father & your mother?" Im sure that should count for grandparents too. I wish you the best.
T&L(I think that is your name) I respect your opinion, if he would have even agreed to go to counseling, I may have hung on a bit longer. But he refuses, according to him, our problems are my fault for leaving the truth, even though we've always had problems. Its just sent I left, he really gone over the edge.
Today I signed the lease on an apartment, Im proud of myself, but I must say, Im scared to death!
For those of you who pray, keep me in yours, for those of you who dont, I still love you and appreciate your thoughts, good energies and advice.
Love, Jeanie
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Im finally leaving my jw husband.
by littlebird insome of you know i have struggled with this for awhile.
i really do believe in marriage and the committment, however, sometimes enough is enough.. his endless preaching at me and calling me and my (adult) children satan has me realizing that this situation is not going to get better.
the other day he kicked my son out of the house for wearing a cap, in his car, with a skull on it.
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Tammy- I left home at 16, straight to him, he was 26. I wish he'd wise up, but I wouldn't know how to tell if it was real or not. He can seem fine for weeks and then totally lose it and stay that way for months.
Jeff- I hope so, maybe this is what it will take.
Snowbird- Thanks, I hope Im handling it right.
Estee- I was actually thinking of getting counseling. I probably will.
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Im finally leaving my jw husband.
by littlebird insome of you know i have struggled with this for awhile.
i really do believe in marriage and the committment, however, sometimes enough is enough.. his endless preaching at me and calling me and my (adult) children satan has me realizing that this situation is not going to get better.
the other day he kicked my son out of the house for wearing a cap, in his car, with a skull on it.
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littlebird
Thanks cyber!