A great topic. And very accurate. There was a time when I thought about trying for reinstatement, just for the family's sake, but it is thoroughly denigrating to the human spirit to tolerate the kind of treatment one must deal with from one's fellowman during this process. By the time it's done, they are clearly hoping to have a dog that has been taught to roll over and speak with no incentive whatsoever offered.
I wish they'd thrown me out sooner, to be honest, years ago. I would've had a much better life by now. But it is clear that, as this article bears out, scripture has nothing at all to do with their decisions in judicial matters, pretty much they follow only the Society's handbook in making their choices. There's no point in attempting to play a rigged game as if one hopes to change the rules when the rules will be variables anyway.
I, too, understand what Londo meant, about the sense of nearly PTSD about attending meetings. I've had the same experience. And an excellent reference to Mr. Frodo, I might add...truly, the Third Age is over and my time has passed...
And being interrogated about where your ex-wife lives during the reinstatement process? Man, that's ballsy. Hard to imagine keeping one's cool with b.s. like that goin' down. It really is like dealing with dirty cops, trying to get reinstated...just make sure you give the answers the 'slave' needs to hear, and you're set.
--sd-7