Posts by sd-7

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Expressions on faces at DC/RC

by BU2B in

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i have become more observant at the last couple district conventions of jws faces and enthusiasm and it seems to be very somber.

i remember a couple of years ago i was an attendant at one of the upper sections at the blue cross arena in rochester, ny and in afternoon session at least half were curled up with their eyes closed, some with blankets.

the applause seems very forced and mechanical.

sd-7

Well, I know last year I had my Skullcandy headphones and was listening to my iPod shuffle for the whole program. I looked around on occasion, noticed one young fellow giving me a little smirk. I had a feeling he probably could've cared less about the convention, too. Other than that, yeah, folks were snacking and napping during the program. But yeah, those folks were probably not the norm. Most people seemed zoned out and were staring at the platform. Man, that Esther drama sucked. I couldn't wait for it to end and I wasn't even really listening.

Anyway, yeah, the dress and grooming are definitely uh...you know, often the young sisters are doing a JW version of sexy out there. Not that it ever mattered to me, really. I usually stayed in my seat during lunchtime or walked around by myself. The few young ladies I met by chance never seemed particularly interested. But it did a number on my hormones, though. Trying to last the whole weekend without resorting to the unclean habit of mas--was always a challenge. But then, once I got reprogrammed, it was like I had a really cool deflector shield that could stop anyone. At least for awhile, and then it went back to normal.

Well...I guess this year is a temporary break from conventions. Will I return next year? I don't know. But this isn't about me, it's about expressions on faces. Mostly people were pretentiously friendly to each other. "How are you??? I haven't seen you in forever! Blah blah!" And so on. It all seems very different though, once you're being shunned and all.

--sd-7

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New DVD review

by Laika in

i managed to catch the new dvd on youtube last night before the inevitable takedown.

as a film i felt it wasn't anywhere near as good as the prodigal movie, the story wasn't as dramatic, the characters much less interesting and developed and the direction weaker.

i found the prodigal relatively entertaining (all things considered) this one was just dull.. here are some of my random thoughts anyway [spoiler alert - ha!].

sd-7

Well, from all these comments, I'm getting a picture here. The Society's target is not the minds of its audience, but rather, their hearts. Appeals to emotion rather than reason seem to be the focus here. Even if your brain suspects something isn't right, if they create enough fear, guilt and shame, then that holds you in place. You stick with what's safe not because it makes sense but because the alternative is too frightening to contemplate.

Man, I am not looking forward to this one playing in my DVD player...

--sd-7

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Assembly News Photo

by snare&racket in

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this photograph from a news site is a succinct summary of a life in wt's hands....... look at their faces, it says it all.. also, note the watchtower pr machine in action, explaining that it brings 4 million dollars to the location.

(10,000 x 400 dollars) clearly a watchtower statistic, where is the care and interest for members who are struggling so much, with new videos encouraging less career activity, less work commitments, at an all time economic low for our generation.. http://www.standard-freeholder.com/2014/06/15/thousands-attend-watchtower-convention-in-cornwall.

father: "i'm a wt 'yes' man and proud of it!

sd-7

I like the comment below the news article:

I don't hear the JWs or any other religious group constantly preaching hate against you and your imaginary god. Unlike most religious cults that seem content believing whatever they want, you and your cult are hellbent on spreading hate.

What, did JWs change their message without my knowing? I guess a lot of people really don't know what JWs teach, after all, do they?

--sd-7

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Critique of new JW DVD: These Words Must be on Your Heart.

by WingCommander in

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http://youtu.be/dhn2to663cu.

im really channeling my inner blondie with my observation and critiques of these new watchtower videos.

something about them really turns my stomach.

sd-7

WingCommander, your humor is brutally funny. I look forward to seeing this video at home with my family in...I guess another month or so.

Actually, as I think of it, I know at least one of my JW cousins was living in a 5-bedroom house at some point; I guess her husband who is now an elder, I think, makes pretty good money. My aunt's married to a non-JW who worked at NASA and she was a teacher herself, so she was driving a Benz. I guess in their case they were lucky to have a non-JW bringing in the big cash so they didn't have to feel guilty about where it came from. I say all that to say, it's not impossible, you just have to be in certain areas.

Hmm. You know, it's just nice to no longer have to worry about rushing home for the midweek meeting without having had dinner and all. That's one of the biggest bonuses of getting out of it. 'Cause man, was I hungry.

Anyway, I digress. Thanks for the review. I'm still hoping for The Prodigal Strikes Again! to be made, though...

--sd-7

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How We Come Across On The Board

by minimus in

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most people here have never met you.

we converse, discuss, argue, laugh, agree, question, share our lives..... quite often, you kind of get to know what a person is like.

some people, we tend to gravitate to and others, we shy away from.. how do you think you come across to other people?

sd-7

Usually much quieter, in real life, and probably not nearly as witty--if I can be thought of witty on here, that is. But I can be silly or serious or passionate about something, but most of that stays on the inside if I feel insecure or nervous.

--sd-7

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WT Society's Paranoia Over Spiral Binding of Elder's Textbook - Crazy

by flipper in

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this letter was sent as an addendum to the elders regarding their latest elders textbook.

i think you'll find this interesting and also disconcerting as well.. to all bodies of elders.

re: spiral binding of shepherding textbook.

sd-7

Well, that's strange. But no stranger than having a book that your fellow sisters are not allowed to handle in the first place. If there is any concrete proof of information control, this is one of the best examples of it. So what's the Biblical justification for this? Oh, right..."be obedient".

It makes me wax poetic. I feel a 'Listen, Obey and Be Blessed' coming on here...

We must protect the manual of the elders

This means showing discretion indeed

If we allowed women to read these pages

Can you imagine the things they might see?

Listen, obey, and be blessed

When spiral binding the text

No unbelievers or the female sex

Breathe on baptized brothers' necks

So do not take the manual to FedEx

Don't go to Staples or anywhere else

If you can make spiral bindings in your basement

Then perhaps your fellow elders can help

Listen, obey, and be blessed

When spiral binding the text

No unbelievers or the female sex

Breathe on baptized brothers' necks

So do not leave it inside a gym locker

Not even a safe deposit at a bank

It helps the elders show love to our brothers

It is the faithful slave that we can thank!

Listen, obey, and be blessed

When spiral binding the text

No unbelievers or the female sex

Breathe on baptized brothers' necks

Yes, be right beside them

To keep them in check

Listen, obeeeeeeeeey and be blessed

--sd-7

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JW.ORG to be the fulfillment of Matthew 24:14

by donuthole in

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the organization is shifting away from printed literature in favor of their new jw.org website.

the website contains content that is not printed in literature.

kiosks, trolleys, and storefronts are being used to showcase the website.

sd-7

It'll never happen. Door-to-door is their bread and butter, as important a cornerstone as using the name Jehovah. They will never end door-to-door ministry as it's considered a Biblical command and essentially their trademark. They hold it up as something (among many things) that makes them better than all other Christians. So...yeah, no.

--sd-7

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Single women with 3 kids returning to the meetings....

by EndofMysteries in

i was talking with a still in relative today who mentioned how they had this sister with 3 or 4 kids over recently.

they said she is returning ot meetings and coming back into the truth, etc.

i remember when i was still in, the only ones i ever saw trying to return were generally the single moms with lots of baggage.

sd-7

This makes me wonder if it's the reason my wife went back to the JWs. She didn't seem to have much interest in going back until she got pregnant by a guy who dumped her shortly thereafter when she wouldn't have an abortion. But as she tells it, JWs gave her stuff for the baby even while she was DF'd. So it was a support system, and no doubt once she got reinstated it made her more loyal than ever and more convinced than ever of JWs' being a loving, supportive people.

Now, years later, she's hard pressed to find someone willing to give her and the kids a ride 5 minutes down the road to the KH without them wanting gas money. It's a bit ironic. But yeah, the support system is a big factor there. The kids get what are imagined to be good male role models and all that.

It reminds me of a JW elder years ago who said to me, "You know, you're like a son to me." In my head I thought, that's funny, 'cause I've never thought of you as a father figure.

--sd-7

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Disturbing Footnote in Tomorrow's Study Article...

by HeyThere in

article is basicqlly about families where a spouse is working away from home for an extended period, etc...a foot note says basically that some studies have shown that working away from home can cause serious consequences, such as infidelity, homosexuality, or incest.

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pull it up on jw.org...that is what it says.

sd-7

Well, Apognophos...I just don't think I'd want to concoct a fictional cheating scenario. If you're going to inflict that kind of emotional harm on someone, at least let it be on account of the truth. I think the moral implications of lying about something like that would probably haunt me for a long time. I mean, on its face it's laughable just because I'm thinking of the look on her face, but at the same time, it's the kind of prank that's taking it too far. If there were some set of circumstances that would make it worthwhile to do, then maybe I'd lay out a plan. Or to paraphrase Bane, when my marriage is...ashes, then I have my permission to lie.

--sd-7

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Disturbing Footnote in Tomorrow's Study Article...

by HeyThere in

article is basicqlly about families where a spouse is working away from home for an extended period, etc...a foot note says basically that some studies have shown that working away from home can cause serious consequences, such as infidelity, homosexuality, or incest.

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pull it up on jw.org...that is what it says.

sd-7

You could probably convince her you've already cheated, if you play your cards right.

There are days when it feels like she doesn't need any convincing, let me tell you. I admit I've had crazy thoughts of buying lipstick and perfume and smearing it on myself just for the heck of it, but ha ha...I've never allowed myself to go over the edge into madness like that. But you never know--it's a long lifetime. Anything could happen...

--sd-7