I congratulate you too! Because seriously that is what I'm considering! I have done all the research in the world and maybe with the fact that I only have one elder that is considered my elder from the beganing of my DFment and also I'm no longer living where I was... I'm also getting married... It just seem the best way for me.
I will get reinstated and fade... It will be the right reasons in JW eyes. But to each is own when reality hits.
willyloman... your statement has truth behind it. For example my sister had close relationships with her worldly bfs and then when she was involved with a witness guy (same time all my crap was happening I got df) my sister didn't she got married asap to the witness guy. She never was shunned never was held acountable... nothing. I felt kinda hurt by this because she felt righteous enough to shun me but yet she herself did the same thing except she was not baptised. It's part of the nonbaptised JW, game... smart but still not quite right.