it's not i agree it's easier for me to get my point acrossed with out going into detail. yeah i no i should just be happy about making my husband and kids happy but they care about eric and eric cares about them and if i'm part of the (mom's side) family i feel i have to prove myself and my love for them all. it's hard to explain but i want his family to love me as much as i love them. i care for them and i care what they think. so it kinda just affects everything.
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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yes mrsjones5 i just now saw your comment. my phone is slow but yeah that's what i think too. it's easy to think this. and nice to know what to do now. the hard part is confronting this all. my problem... along with communicating it all.. in a good way for the best situation.
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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wow that's a hard worker!! her husband really does have add and has to take ritalin. he's just like her in that mishandles stuff, but his appoligetic and he never asks for stuff we just let him have stuff. ha she likes to say she's raising three kids when it comes to his add. i feel they make a great couple. ;) anywho yeah she's mature at times but sometimes she gets selfish to put it honestly even my husband says i need to be careful not to let her use me, but that's hard to decide or do if he's not giving advice or his mom is going to be on her side. i hope when facing this situation again it will be easier then what i imagined the out come will be.
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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i also try and remind myself her story she confine to me. she says she had ADD when she was in school. i think it passed into adult hood and that is what keeps me from not holding her manners to personal. yet sometimes i think about what her younger sister said, " likes to out shine ppl". the younger sister i thi k would understand but she also likes to gossip and that's why i didn't want to ask for advice from her. so thanks again for your guys help. :)
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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Thanks again! Yeah I'm a mommy bear lol my hubby will help I bet. he just the type that don't wanna get involved but if i explain it this way he will back me on that. i asked him and told him about his sister and he just said "she can think what she wants". meaning it's our stuff. but he doesn't say or do anything either he wants me to handle it. says it's up to me. :/ gee i don't wanna face the prego sister lol (she's over emotional as it is).
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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wow everyone here is really smart. ok i will try it just gives me anxiety thinking about it. i don't want her to turning the family from me! it the only thing i have and when we had confertation the last time, her mom got involved, she really hurt my feelings, and she's like the head of the family in a sence. my huband's mom is like a mother bear she decribed herself and she will stand up and take care of her cubs no matter what! Sweet but scary too i'm thinking... i hope she looks to me as one of her cubs but if not she will choice her side no matter who's right or wrong. :( ok time to step up ahhhhhh :/
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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maybe i should add to she got my baby a few outfits and a cute dress as a gift. she hasn't had a baby for 6 years being that her oldest is 9 and the other boy is 6. great kids! anywho i almost feel like giving it all back to her too! again i don't want to hurt her feelings though or mine. we get along well just sometimes i feel stomped on by her. like during my babyshower she was the attention and over talking me and it hurt my feelings! maybe it's me being to sensitive but seriously some ppl i just can't be around or it really puts me down yet she's so close to our family and i just have to deal with it.
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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aww jgnat that's a good post too :) (you read people well and we don't even know each other)
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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thanks qcmbr! best advice! :) i will do that!
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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Irritated with my sister in law
Ok so I'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl January 31st! The same week I learned my sister in law is having a baby due in October but will be having it delivered September. So she is a nice loving person but I hate to say somehow I always get the feeling it's out of "I did this for you so I expect you to do this for me" type feeling. I have family and friends who are giving and loving but they never expect anything in return and they never ask for anything either. Like for example my husband's step sister, she's wonderful, she gave up all her son's baby clothes for my boy who is now 2 and never asked for anything. She just had a boy last week and I gladly gave the baby clothes back!
Ok so the sister in law that is close to our family that is seriously irritating because she keeps claiming my baby girl's clothes!, like in med conversation says "and since you got all the clothes for her (my baby girl) I won't need to get that just a few more big items..." It irritates the heck out of me! I was willing to give her baby clothes because she's family (or anyone of our family and friends) but it's like every visit she just makes claims on her (my baby girl's) clothes!!! I'm too nice and just nod my head and smile but part of me is devastated and wants to cry. I know it's just clothes but it's hard for me to part with stuff so easily. For one I'm a stay at home mom, I make no money, seeing how she handled losing stuff, breaking stuff, or loosing stuff I let her use kinda brakes my heart... I'm am super OC about keeping things in order and I'm weird about letting people like her borrow stuff (She kinda just automatically just asks for stuff and I reluctantly let her borrow stuff even when I want to say no cause I'm afraid I won't ever see it again but I wanna trust her and be friendly to her). But she's kinda care free about stuff and well I don't think she realizes how much it means to me when she does that. (I wish my husband's step sister had a girl I would love to have gave it to her and then be like oh sorry I give all the clothes away to his other sister she needed them.)
What do I do??? I don't wanna give my baby girls clothes away, but I don't wanna be like NO you can't have them!