ha gee when you put it that way it's like yeah duh "me"... lol why could you think of that. thanks for helping me sort out my thoughts. i have two babies and my brain gets all flustered and i just get all worked up and welp thanks!!! :-) ok so that helped more with the bravery self worth and aproach with maturity. ;) repeating to myself "if they love me they will understand", if not i'm crying to my hubby for not helping me face his sister. lol if he feels the same way he should get the wrath of his family too. lol
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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it's not i agree it's easier for me to get my point acrossed with out going into detail. yeah i no i should just be happy about making my husband and kids happy but they care about eric and eric cares about them and if i'm part of the (mom's side) family i feel i have to prove myself and my love for them all. it's hard to explain but i want his family to love me as much as i love them. i care for them and i care what they think. so it kinda just affects everything.
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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yes mrsjones5 i just now saw your comment. my phone is slow but yeah that's what i think too. it's easy to think this. and nice to know what to do now. the hard part is confronting this all. my problem... along with communicating it all.. in a good way for the best situation.
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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wow that's a hard worker!! her husband really does have add and has to take ritalin. he's just like her in that mishandles stuff, but his appoligetic and he never asks for stuff we just let him have stuff. ha she likes to say she's raising three kids when it comes to his add. i feel they make a great couple. ;) anywho yeah she's mature at times but sometimes she gets selfish to put it honestly even my husband says i need to be careful not to let her use me, but that's hard to decide or do if he's not giving advice or his mom is going to be on her side. i hope when facing this situation again it will be easier then what i imagined the out come will be.
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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i also try and remind myself her story she confine to me. she says she had ADD when she was in school. i think it passed into adult hood and that is what keeps me from not holding her manners to personal. yet sometimes i think about what her younger sister said, " likes to out shine ppl". the younger sister i thi k would understand but she also likes to gossip and that's why i didn't want to ask for advice from her. so thanks again for your guys help. :)
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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Thanks again! Yeah I'm a mommy bear lol my hubby will help I bet. he just the type that don't wanna get involved but if i explain it this way he will back me on that. i asked him and told him about his sister and he just said "she can think what she wants". meaning it's our stuff. but he doesn't say or do anything either he wants me to handle it. says it's up to me. :/ gee i don't wanna face the prego sister lol (she's over emotional as it is).
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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wow everyone here is really smart. ok i will try it just gives me anxiety thinking about it. i don't want her to turning the family from me! it the only thing i have and when we had confertation the last time, her mom got involved, she really hurt my feelings, and she's like the head of the family in a sence. my huband's mom is like a mother bear she decribed herself and she will stand up and take care of her cubs no matter what! Sweet but scary too i'm thinking... i hope she looks to me as one of her cubs but if not she will choice her side no matter who's right or wrong. :( ok time to step up ahhhhhh :/
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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maybe i should add to she got my baby a few outfits and a cute dress as a gift. she hasn't had a baby for 6 years being that her oldest is 9 and the other boy is 6. great kids! anywho i almost feel like giving it all back to her too! again i don't want to hurt her feelings though or mine. we get along well just sometimes i feel stomped on by her. like during my babyshower she was the attention and over talking me and it hurt my feelings! maybe it's me being to sensitive but seriously some ppl i just can't be around or it really puts me down yet she's so close to our family and i just have to deal with it.
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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Butterflyleia85
aww jgnat that's a good post too :) (you read people well and we don't even know each other)
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Irritated with my sister in law who is trying to claim my baby girls clothes
by Butterflyleia85 inirritated with my sister in law.
ok so i'm really happy and excited about having my baby girl january 31st!
the same week i learned my sister in law is having a baby due in october but will be having it delivered september.
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thanks qcmbr! best advice! :) i will do that!