He just thinks I didn't care and I'm sure they must have told him how as the spiritual head, it was my responsibility to teach him and didn't which makes me look like I never took spirituality seriously, thus lead by satan.
This is just horrible and I cannot imagine what this must feel like. I agree with jgnat response, start wielding that power. If your son is 22 and still living under your roof I would he insist that he finds employment and don't be afraid to ask him to pitch in.
I apologise for not responding to your last PM. Been busy myself but we all have one thing in common being married to witnesses. Lots of eggshells to walk on when we are around their people. It gets worse when they are full on as anything you say can be construed by them as Satan working against them. I hated being branded like that until because I always tried very hard to be a good person and a good Christian. But then one day I decided I no longer gave a shit about religious people in general and witnesses in particular.