Or you would have a " potluck picnic " with about 30 to 40 people getting to know one another to draw close as friends outside the confines of the Kingdom Hall?
So, they really want to ban those few activities where the UBM can meet members of the congregation in a non-threatening, friendly environment? Sharing some food, tossing a ball around with the kids, just talking: all these things build the human ties that let the outsider see witnesses as something besides an unwanted Saturday morning wake-up call. If it weren't for those afternoons in the park, Superbowl parties, etc. I probably would have as little regard for the individual witnesses as I do for the Watchtower organization as a whole. Knowing them as persons lets me relate to them as persons on their own merits, instead of seeing them only as cogs in the WT machine. Hmm, perhaps that's their point?
The Christian congregation was founded, NOT TO FUNCTION AS A SOCIAL CLUB
Another false dichotomy. It's possible to do both, while keeping the priorities in order. It's not an either/or choice.
Meeting in private homes, breaking bread together: first century Christians were a poor example by WT standards!