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  JW Hypocrisy Rears It's Ugly Head...As Usual

  by babygirl30 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so about last night.... i am out at a local club (not restaurant, not event venue - a club) to see a rap concert.

  now, i am with some friends minding my own business, and i find that i am standing right behind 3 active jw's - one of whom used to be my best friend.

  this girl is as fake as they come: 1) she used to live with me and would bring non-jw guys home all the time, 2) was living with a man when she lived down south - until he dumped her, and then she decided to go back to jw's the 1st time and got reproved, and i supported her.

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  Matter a fact, she is wishy washy with the ''truth" over money...her family has money, takes lavish vacations every year, the kids got new cars when they graduated, etc. So whenever she is OUT in the streets, her parents cut her off. And Im sure she gets tired of struggling on her own, so she runs back. This cycle has now happened 3x. To me, that is pathetic
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  JW Hypocrisy Rears It's Ugly Head...As Usual

  by babygirl30 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so about last night.... i am out at a local club (not restaurant, not event venue - a club) to see a rap concert.

  now, i am with some friends minding my own business, and i find that i am standing right behind 3 active jw's - one of whom used to be my best friend.

  this girl is as fake as they come: 1) she used to live with me and would bring non-jw guys home all the time, 2) was living with a man when she lived down south - until he dumped her, and then she decided to go back to jw's the 1st time and got reproved, and i supported her.

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  Freddo - I wish I had taken pics. But I just didnt bother cause the way they literally RAN outta there had me dying...their guilt made me smile!

  Beautiful Mind - you hit the nail right on the head. They always FORGET what was done for them...when you dont follow the gang mentality. It is the quintessential definition of fake! You are to them when its what they need, but suddenly become not good FOR them when you dont think how they think.
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  JW Hypocrisy Rears It's Ugly Head...As Usual

  by babygirl30 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so about last night.... i am out at a local club (not restaurant, not event venue - a club) to see a rap concert.

  now, i am with some friends minding my own business, and i find that i am standing right behind 3 active jw's - one of whom used to be my best friend.

  this girl is as fake as they come: 1) she used to live with me and would bring non-jw guys home all the time, 2) was living with a man when she lived down south - until he dumped her, and then she decided to go back to jw's the 1st time and got reproved, and i supported her.

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  Pete Zahut, your reply was beautiful!!! Had me rolling here...cause it was to the point but full of sarcasm - just my style! I know this chick is fake, and the fact that she even responded with that JW rhetoric means she knows she is guilty. No further convo or explanation would be required at this point...and like I said, I know for a fact she isnt dumb enough to TELL anyone JW she saw me...cause they def would ask where - hahahah. She would have to out herself, which she is way too chicken to do. It made me remember again why I have no desire to go back. This petty fakeness is a reminder of how oblivious JWs are to their own reflections. At least in the world I know exactly what Im dealing with...but the facade JWs wear is so thick even they can see through it.
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  JW Hypocrisy Rears It's Ugly Head...As Usual

  by babygirl30 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so about last night.... i am out at a local club (not restaurant, not event venue - a club) to see a rap concert.

  now, i am with some friends minding my own business, and i find that i am standing right behind 3 active jw's - one of whom used to be my best friend.

  this girl is as fake as they come: 1) she used to live with me and would bring non-jw guys home all the time, 2) was living with a man when she lived down south - until he dumped her, and then she decided to go back to jw's the 1st time and got reproved, and i supported her.

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  Agreed JRK...although I did it for years. But it was SO tiring and time consuming, and the older I've gotten the more I see it being so fake. It's not worth it to me to do again, thus why I won't go back.
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  JW Hypocrisy Rears It's Ugly Head...As Usual

  by babygirl30 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so about last night.... i am out at a local club (not restaurant, not event venue - a club) to see a rap concert.

  now, i am with some friends minding my own business, and i find that i am standing right behind 3 active jw's - one of whom used to be my best friend.

  this girl is as fake as they come: 1) she used to live with me and would bring non-jw guys home all the time, 2) was living with a man when she lived down south - until he dumped her, and then she decided to go back to jw's the 1st time and got reproved, and i supported her.

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  Yep Stephanie61092 - you get it!!! That is the worst kind of hypocrisy, but it doesn't make me angry anymore. As I see it, karma is a 'mutha' and these fake people eventually will suffer the circumstances of their own bull shit. The very fact that my ex friend responded in such a DEFENSIVE manner means she knows she was caught...and that was truly my reason in writing her. I bet you ANY money she won't mention my msg to her to anyone else...as that would incriminate her being at this concert at a club. But I wanted her to know she was caught, and that was my goal. Your ex friend seems like just as much of a winner as mine...lol.
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  Online Article About JW life from Ex-JW

  by TheOutSpoken1 in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  each of us have experienced the aftermath of being a jw.

  we can all relate.

  my heart hurts for this child and what she went thru.

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  Wow.
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  JW Hypocrisy Rears It's Ugly Head...As Usual

  by babygirl30 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so about last night.... i am out at a local club (not restaurant, not event venue - a club) to see a rap concert.

  now, i am with some friends minding my own business, and i find that i am standing right behind 3 active jw's - one of whom used to be my best friend.

  this girl is as fake as they come: 1) she used to live with me and would bring non-jw guys home all the time, 2) was living with a man when she lived down south - until he dumped her, and then she decided to go back to jw's the 1st time and got reproved, and i supported her.

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  Method Man...who was singing "How High"...LOL!!!!!
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  I finally understood the final hurdle...

  by The Rebel in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  well the "pious" elders tuned out to be " super pious" and very good at reciting from the " very super pious" elders manuel, but actually " super pious" elders are quite harmless when ignored.. as for my former friends in the congregation, well throughout the ages there have always been people prepared to stand up for truth and friendship, sadly my " former" friends from the congregation proved not to be people of such noble character, instead only capable of giving short contrived speeches about why they missed me at meetings, snooze, and no great loss, as i have found the community outside the w.t organisation positively buzzing with unconditional friendship.. anyway i feel i have overcome all hurdles in my exit from the " w.t" except one,which is how i deal with my disrespectful father.

  even when i was a witness in good standing, he had a pretty disrespectful and rude word power, now it's completely inappropriate.

  i have tried pointing this out, even had long periods without contact, but i don't like doing that as it denies my mum seeing her grandson.. however what i have concluded is that this isn't w.t at fault.

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  My father and mother are the same way. They can rip a person to shreds with their judgements and opinions on what is 'right' under JW doctrine, but sadly they choose to rip into ME...as their subject. No matter how many times I have confronted them both on their verbal abuse, it is always defended by their saying it's out of love...or Jehovah gave them the responsibility of raising me and that I have to honor them. TWISTED mentality if you ask me!
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  Disturbance during Memorial 2016.

  by Ben131895 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  two documented disturbances during memorial 2016. type 'memorial 2016' on youtube.

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  I have never condoned this type of behavior - as someone else said - it really does make those of us who are ex-JWs look crazy. It truly is counter productive. Shoot, even if someone goes off at a work meeting, we all look at that person like they have 'issues'...so a religious meeting disturbance by one person is no different in my mind. Fighting JWs has to be done another way, but the belligerent way is NOT gonna work.
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  Walking a thin line - Resigning Elder

  by Sanchy in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  warning of a long boring post ahead.

  i feel like i need to vent my story out, as i feel quite helpless at the moment.. i'm 31 year old, married, father of toddler with another one on the way, due later this month.

  i've been serving as elder for about 4 years now in a south florida congregation.

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  WOW! Such a good post. You should be proud that you stood up for yourself and decided you were not going to be a follower anymore - but a true LEADER in your own right.

  JW org is like a crack-house. As long as everyone IN the house is smoking crack, they are fine...but the minute one person make the decision for themselves (that crack isn't good for them), the whole house begins to turn on them. Forgetting that thinking for oneself, and stopping drugs is healthy...but the gang mentality kicks in for them.

  I feel for you as you do have a long road ahead. But you have the right attitude about it and I wish you the best.