Mulan,
I can tell you loved here dearly. I read her story when it was posted a couple weeks ago. I am sorry for you family's loss. As a thought, maybe you could put a link to a breast cancer awareness site at the bottom of your tribute. If you think this is a bad idea, I understand.
Right now I am helping my girlfriend with the soon to be loss of a friend to kidney disease. Her friend has decided to have the dialisys(SP) machine removed, because she is near death anyway. Loosing people that are too young is such a horrible thing. Take care of yourself.
"Hand me that whiskey, I need to consult the spirit."-J.F. Rutherford