This is a sore subject for me too, although I don't blame my parents. I blame the Watchtower Society, for pounding this subject on JW families at the Sunday meetings. Here is one of those Bible scriptures they loved to pull out as an example for raising children the right way, Jehovah's way.
"The rod and reproof are what give wisdom; but a boy let on the loose will be causing his mother shame." (Proverbs 29:15)
And then there was that song (involving reproof) that I can still hear, "He says use the rod." Thanks for nothing Watchtower Society, with friends like you was, who needs an enemy.