I'm going to say this one more time for those at the back (Lloyd).
I have no interest in how you handle your marriage. Whatsoever.
What I will not and cannot accept is your utterly tone-deaf inability to understand that a man who to claims to advocate for child victims of sexual abuse and female victims of domestic & sexual abuse, should find no conflict of interest in using some of the most vulnerable, trafficked or coerced young women in third world countries for their sexual gratification.
Inside or outside of marriage.