Hey! Here's a stellar idea: if you don't like the OP, don't post on her topics. Make no attempts of interaction. Don't even talk about her behind her back. Pretend like she doesn't exist. Whatcha think? Can you do it? I don't think you can but I could be wrong.
I don't have much interest in participating in this discussion, because pretty much everybody I am privileged to be close with would agree with the concise opinion Cofty has already voiced, so there is little extra I could contribute on that score.
But surely, Mrs. Jones, whether Band likes the OP or not is irrelevant? Opinions were asked for; it is a discussion forum. Ideas will be challenged. "If you don't like the opinion/poster, don't respond" is a logical fallacy that seems to suggest that you feel an echo chamber type of environment would be more appropriate.