Last week I was told by my very active JW ex-husband (after me not setting foot at the last Kindumb Hall for five years) that the elders want to know if I have remarried. Apparently, they want me to deliver a written message to them so that my ex can be declared "free." I told him that I don't owe those elders ANY explanations regarding my personal business. I said to him: "You have the divorce papers. You haven't been married to anyone for the last three years. If you need the elders to tell you when you are free, then I guess you aren't really."
YC