carpediem

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  Seeking those who still wish to be JW's.

  by Pineapple in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i am not a jw basher.

  i still love my brothers and sisters in the truth.

  2 years ago i was kicked out because i am gay.

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  Hi Pineapple

  I dont want to be JW anymore, but just wanted to say I am glad you came here. I am sure you will enjoy being around.

  CarpeDiem
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  Do you like unexpected visitors?

  by highdose in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i fall into the sad bracket of not likiing them.

  sorry but i spend my whole working day being unrelentingly polite and charming ... when i get home i want to switch off and slob out.

  i do not want the doorbell to ring and have to play host!

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  I dont like unexpected visitors, unless they are just popping in for say 15 minutes, and only stay 15 minutes and not 3 hours.
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  It's my Birthday!!!

  by carpediem in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  the first since leaving.

  a sad state of affairs when the first person to wish me happy birthday was the windows live team lol.. anyway, i think i will be nice to myself today .

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  Right back at you Judi. Thanks for telling me about the private mail function. I hadnt noticed it.
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  It's my Birthday!!!

  by carpediem in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  the first since leaving.

  a sad state of affairs when the first person to wish me happy birthday was the windows live team lol.. anyway, i think i will be nice to myself today .

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  Judi8751 thank you. Sorry I didnt get your pm. I didnt know I had that facility on here. Will look for it now.
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  It's my Birthday!!!

  by carpediem in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  the first since leaving.

  a sad state of affairs when the first person to wish me happy birthday was the windows live team lol.. anyway, i think i will be nice to myself today .

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  DGP - thank you. Yes my nickname is just perfect. Every morning I wake up I remind myself to seize the day. Its that attitude that helped me free myself from the org. Today is all we have after all, so as Jack said on the film Titanic 'make each day count'!
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  It's my Birthday!!!

  by carpediem in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  the first since leaving.

  a sad state of affairs when the first person to wish me happy birthday was the windows live team lol.. anyway, i think i will be nice to myself today .

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  Aw Snap - thanks for the website. Will take a look later.

  Mr Flipper - its not the first time I have celebrated my birthday, but I was in for ten years, so its quite a while ago. Ten years too long I say!
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  It's my Birthday!!!

  by carpediem in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  the first since leaving.

  a sad state of affairs when the first person to wish me happy birthday was the windows live team lol.. anyway, i think i will be nice to myself today .

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  Thanks folks

  Today, to celebrate, I had a snickers.......mmmmm. Later I plan to cook a nice meal and have a red wine, or two, or three......! When my kids get in I will start singing 'Happy birthday to me' to remind them of the date. They dont know its my birthday because I havent celebrated it for ages. It is quite nice being told 'happy birthday' - so thanks very much!
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  It's my Birthday!!!

  by carpediem in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  the first since leaving.

  a sad state of affairs when the first person to wish me happy birthday was the windows live team lol.. anyway, i think i will be nice to myself today .

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  The first since leaving. A sad state of affairs when the first person to wish me happy birthday was the Windows Live Team LOL.

  Anyway, I think I will be nice to myself today
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  What are you Thankful for this year?

  by lovelylil2 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  in the spirit of thanksgiving, thought i ask what everyone is thankful for.. i am thankful for my family's good health and happiness, for the great friends i have, for my job that i absolutely love, for celebrating my 7th year of freedom this month from the wt publishing cult.. anyone else?.

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  I too am thankful for this site - for knowing there are many others like me.

  I am thankful that I no longer have to waste half my week studying, going to meetings or in service.

  I am thankful that I will never again have to knock on the door of a stranger who doesn't want me there, while I waffle on about something that I stopped believing in a long time ago.

  I am thankful I left while I still have plenty of life left in front of me (hopefully). Even if I only have one day left, I am thankful I dont have to spend it in a cult.

  I am thankful that my kids left before me and that I have them on the outside.

  I am thankful for a good job that pays well.

  I am glad I am making friends on the outside.
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  What did you look like as a JW?

  by highdose in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was going through some old photos today, i found one of myself when i was a devout jw.

  it was really shocking!

  i'm so thin, my cheeks are hollow, i'm as white as the wall behind me, i'm standing hunched over, and in my eyes you can see real misery.

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  I looked formal and felt uncomfortable. I hated dressing for meetings and feel much better now I can wear what I want. I have a wardrobe full of clothes I probably wont wear again - except for the occasional job interview or funeral. I also wear less make up now and feel much better for shedding the whole JW image.