JWs are taught to judge and assess each others spirituality even without thinking. The first question you ask visitors to the hall is:
How long have you been in the truth? i.e. are you an interested person or a witness of long standing
If you have been in the organisation for a period of time then you may also be questioned about whether you hold any privileges or whether you have pioneered,
If you have been away from the hall for a period then questions may relate to whether you are getting to meetings ok or whether you have been ill. This helps to establish whether you are spiritually weak or have something serious they can gossip about.
No one ever asks if they can help you attend by offering practical assistance they just want to know if you are still worthy. When I refused to take my autistic son to meetings because he was self harming in school due to fears about the world ending I was told to find a baby sitter and leave him at home.
As witnesses we grade one another COs and DOs were fawned over in actives were despised if you are not contributing to the work then you are a potential threat.