The reality as those on a definitive side of the fence don't like the answer.
I don't understand this sentence. Can you explain please? What answer? What definitive side of which fence?
you expect absolutes out of others
For example?
yet can't define what this event is and how RNA made the leap to DNA
As I said you should investigate the work being done by biochemist Bill Martin of the University of Dusseldorf, Mike Russell of the Jet Propulsion Lab in Passendina, and Eugene Koonin of the NIH in the USA. They are doing fantastic work in this field. Nick Lane of UNiversity College London is doing research and experiments in the origin of life and has published widely on the subject. He has already published four books on this. I recommended one in the previous thread, did you get a copy? It is called "Life Arising".
If I tell you more about the transition from RNA to DNA will you just keep changing the question?