I'm trying really hard not to become insulting of your outrageous position but it isn't easy.
When a natural disaster happens in the developed world and the infants of Christian parents are killed do you think they are better off dead too?
The Asian tsunami is but one example of thousands of similar incidents in human history where your perfectly loving God has murdered countless millions of his children.
If you think the risk of child abuse in Thailand is a justification then you are beyond the pale.
Jesus explained the meaning of love. It had to do with caring for others and protecting them. It did did not allow for preemptive murder.
I am betting all the other Christians on this forum are wishing you would stop now!