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  Healing & Rebuilding Your Life - Feedback Wanted

  by jp1692 in

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  i have been invited to speak at an international cultic studies association workshop this fall.

  i could use your help in focusing on my presentation subject.. these workshops are for former members of any cult or other high-control, authoritarian group, not just jehovah's witnesses.

  last year, i spoke at one of their larger conferences in europe.

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  JP - Really interesting ideas you have come up with for your presentation. You should try to find an opportunity to speak at a future forum where you can put the whole theme together.

  Personally I am really interested in number 2 regarding our core beliefs. Unless former members of high-control groups deal with these they will struggle to make progress in other areas.

  For example ...

  Us versus Them - Until we see ourselves as fellow travellers with the rest of humanity we cannot build authentic relationships and will go on living in judgemental isolation.

  Angst - Cult members see causes for dread everywhere. Every event is seen as proof that the world is 'going to hell in a handbasket'. This is the best time in all of human history. Until ex-cult members grasp this they will continue to be cynical and distrustful.

  Utopian Delusions - There is no such thing as 'perfection'. There never was. This is as good as it gets. Until we accept this reality we cannot begin living.

  That's my first thoughts but will think about it some more.
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  Newspaper reports: Dutch government will initiate inquiry into child abuse within JW community

  by Anders Andersen in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  today a dutch newspaper published an in-depth follow-up item on jw abuse issues.. the most interesting part of the article is this:.

  the politicians also let themselves be heard.

  a month ago the house of representatives voted unanimously in favor of a motion to enforce an independent inquiry into abuse within the jehovah's witnesses, as the organization refuses to initiate it.

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  Doubter - Watchtower's child protection policies and procedures are not fit for purpose. They have created an environment where pedophiles can offend with impunity. This fact has been recognised by authorities all over the world.

  There was a time that the general public associated JWs with their beliefs regarding blood, or with the fact that they don't celebrate Christmas and birthdays. Increasingly it is the case that your organisation is best known for child-abuse scandals.

  You are on the wrong side of history. You might lack the moral fibre needed to disassociate yourself from this mess but you don't need to become an active apologist for it.
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  Contradictions!

  by Freedom rocks in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  quite regularly at meetings jws mocked worldly people and apostates(anyone who had left the "truth") for saying the bible contradicts itself when it is in complete harmony from beginning to end apparently.

  can anyone point out some of the contradictions they know of?

  they used to laugh at the fact people on the doors would say the bible contradicts itself and when they asked the householder to show them where, they couldn't..

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  The most compelling contradictions are found by reading the synoptic gospels 'horizontally'. That is, read an account in Mark (the earliest gospel) then read the same story in Matthew and Luke.

  It is impossible to reconcile Jesus' birth and death narratives.

  Was Joseph and Mary living in Galilee and then went down to Judea and later returned to Galilee, or were they living in Judea and then later fled to Galilee?

  On what day did Jesus die, the Passover or the day or preparation for the Passover?

  At what time of day was Jesus impaled? (You will need to include John's gospel for this one)

  Who went to the tomb and what did they see?

  Did the resurrected Jesus meet his disciples in Judea or Galilee?
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  New Thoughts on Human Origins.

  by fulltimestudent in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  this article appeared originally in new scientist (july 4, 2018) under the heading:.

  "asia’s mysterious role in the early origins of humanity".

  bizarre fossils from china are revealing our species' asian origins and rewriting the story of human evolution".

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  Why should you expect anybody to engage with you about this Perry, when you admit you have never read a single scientific book in your entire life?

  Here are 40 threads presenting some of the facts. Feel free to use evidence to debunk any of them.
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  BBC Radio 2 Vanessa Feltz show. Shunning and Jehovah's Witnesses

  by ThomasCovenant in

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  on air now..

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  I thought 'Ruby' did very well. She did focus on a few things that were a bit minor IMO, but it was what was her experience. Every bit helps.

  I rang in hoping to comment on the deceitful official statement but couldn't get through.
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  I don't get why some point to the no tolerance for gays and subjugation of women as a JW thing.

  by blownaway in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  some churches have taken the step to allow gays, women instructing men ect.

  but its not a jw thing.

  its a bible thing.

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  According to the Pew survey JWs are by far the most homophobic religious group - SBF

  When a bible believer answers no to the question of whether 'homosexuality should be accepted by society', it does not necessarily equate with 'homophobia'.
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  Is Jesus the Alpha + Omega?

  by JW Answers in

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  is jesus the alpha and omega?

  the watchtower make a bold brass article on their own website claiming that jesus is not the alpha and omega, yet however, god's word explains in clear detail that he is the alpha and omega... do we therefore trust what the watchtower says?

  or do we trust what god says?.

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  I agree Earnest.

  Perhaps the most powerful argument against the WT position in the book of Revelation is the fact that everything in heaven and earth fall down and worship Jesus and the Father without distinction.
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  Regional Convention Stat. from the UK

  by freddo in

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  2. friends

  another fantastic increase i mean stagnation for the jborg chariot .... cardiff, wales, uk convention july 27-29th 2018. attendances 3500/3600 (friday) - 4150 (sunday) approx.. baptisms - wait for it ... drumroll ... 10..

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  I think Scotland is split between Perth and Glasgow but I might be long out of date with that. Can anybody confirm?

  Baptism used to be a really big event at Murrayfield involving buses transporting candidates and families to the pool.
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  Great news!

  by Half banana in

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  2. experiences

  it's a case of two down and one to go.

  my darling daughter has announced to the extended family that she has left jehovah's witnesses!

  deep joy!.

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  cofty

  Great news!
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  Realization of something very close to a supernatural force but scientific

  by Bad_Wolf in

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  after finding patterns in lottery numbers and thinking about if random truly exists, i also flipped a coin for awhile.

  i was counted how many times i would get heads and tails and if they would equal out in the end.

  if heads slowly was getting ahead too much, i would suddenly get a bunch of tails in a row to almost equal it out.

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  It is a proven fact that energy can be, has been and continues to be ...ummm, manipulated.

  I disagree.

  If it is a proven fact can you refer me to the peer reviewed studies that describe the controlled experiments?