The women pass on what they do in fear of the men and of the religion. They feel they have no choice.
Sometimes the women use their powers of persuasion to show their husbands out of the cult
However, I have known some really stupid women in my time and I'm sure it's their type that have had a hand in the type of scenario you suggest. I grew up so angry about the little respect that was shown for women and lack of faith in their abilities, but as I grew older I realised that many of the women in the congregation wern't so bright and did let emotion rule their thinking in stereotypical form
Am I really any different if I try to persuade my child not to believe in some angry god? I guess I am in that I will be teaching them to analyse the facts and not just to "have faith" because that is what a "righteous" person does that is grateful to God (and doesn't want to get killed at the big A-Day).