why don't you want to be disfellowshipped? it seems to me that you somewhat 'value' your jw status so much that you don't want to lose it. if you don't want to be a jw then cut it loose 100% percent.
Trinity
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Inactive 3yr, baptised & "expecting&qu...
by lofromchicago ini have been a lurker for quite some time now (3 years maybe), and i vist the site a few times every couple of months.
however, a situation has presented itself and i need to talk to someone.
my "story" from 3 years ago is posted on http://www.jwfiles.com/jws-leaving/paul.html for some background info (i'm 26 now).
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I did something really stupid.... :(
by Eppie inhey,.
ok, i need all the advice i can get...... last week i told my sister (she is jw, as is my entire family) that i did something stupid.
i had just broken up with my boyfriend because he was cheating on me.... and in some kind of drunk-revenge-mood i slept with his best friend..... .
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Trinity
obviously you felt giulty about what you have done otherwise you wouldn't have told your sister. i think that you should go to the elders and tell them what happened. if you don't go to the hall anymore what difference does it make if you are disfellowshipped or not. do you care? your sister will if she hasn't already gone to the brothers. to save your relationship with her, you should be the one who 'tells' annd not put her i a position to do so.