Restrangled, look up Karla Homolka. It happens. Bizzy and I are roughly on the same page. It's rare. But it happens. And, Bizzy was right for the myriad reasons many of the kids I worked w/ had issues that were'nt reported for along time. Caregivers, society, etc. But people get really, really angry when this subject is brought up. Four or five years ago I brought up the issue of female molesters on here, and people got pissed at me for even imagining such a thing.
The child abuse stats for women? Much higher than men. But, they're arond children in general far more, so it evens out to 50-50. Women can be violent, abusive and aggressive.