Double standards amongst those "who take the lead amongst us"
Bullying by the same, leading to the big "cold shoulder"
Major doctrinal change, especially the change in the baptism vows.
If they spout about others altering the scriptures in literature, they should ignore the splinter and take the log out of their own eye first!
Over a three year period I gradually lost all confidence in anything they said without questioning and researching first. I still remember raising my hand to knock at a door and thinking "I can't do this anymore"
That was a haunting and powerful moment for me.