noidea,
There is never a No Strings Attached date.
Even if the guy takes you to McDonalds he is expecting things to go somewhere. Maybe he is a real gentleman and doesnt expect sex BUT he wants a relationship with you.
This date he is asking you out on is him trying to get closer to you.
You are a wonderful, beautiful woman so this is no surprise.
The only thing you need to ask yourself is do YOU want to get closer to him.
Not based on expensive gifts or dates that make you think WOW this guy is great but based on his qualities as a human.
Before he ever asked for this date did he appeal to you at all? Did he turn your head with anything kind he has done? What are his mannerisms? Is he kind to everyone? What is his sense of humor like?
Remember also, if you go on a date with a man too far away from home.....how will you end this date and get back home without him?
What if you find you cant stand his company? You are then stuck with him till your return.
I would get to know him better too. I once had a guy give me lines about his investments; he took me out shopping.wanted to buy me a fur he said! Something made me feel weird about him and I didnt except his gifts even though he insisted no strings. I wont get into details but, even though he didnt expect the pay off from me right away there was strings and he was/is a real creep!
The naive person inside me though GO FOR IT when I read your thread but, the much wiser after being kicked around single mom in me said NO WAY have to think of the kids.
There is so much time you could spend getting to know this guy in person at close to home.
Remember it is the little things in life that count. You dont want to be blinded by a flashy show!
Just my 2 cents.....If you do chose to go Ill take a tee shirt too.
Take care sugar.
Agape,
Utopian_Raindrops
Para ti.......





Edited by - Utopian_Raindrops on 13 January 2003 23:34:13