Noidea,
You are very wise to be waiting on having another relationship till you have healed.
Its also good he knows this.
I am not there so I can not see how he behaves around you and notice if maybe youve been missing any cues from him that show his feelings for you.
On one hand you tell us,
I.know him well enough. At the same time you admitted, I know what this guy makes and there is no way he can afford this. Turns out he is heavy into real estate and has close to 30 homes he rents out. My point is we dont REALLY know anyone. For all you know this guy has liked you a long time and this is his window. His way of showing you he isnt like all the others.
I am not saying he is a bad person by the way. I am saying because you have been holding your heart aside so you can heal you may have missed some cues.
Poor guy may have been fawning over you for sometime and you may have been oblivious!
This may have been his 1 st chance to really get your attention.
Your subconscious probably knows this and thats why you need advice. Youre still guarding yourself.
If it were a simple matter of expenses you would have told him clearly straight away. You seem a passionate woman and so would have no problem if not for the fact youre guarding your heart.
I think your solution is really the best and I am glad we were a sounding board for you.
As you say
I was talking to my sister and said that there is a Super bowl every year and that it could wait.
Of course if the Titans play I still want a tee shirt.
Take care beauty,
Agape,
U_R
P.S. I know you feel it is about expenses but I would be truly surprised if this guy has no interest in you what so ever other then a friend. So please be patent with me and others who dont seem to get your point. Just want you to think of all the possibilities and keep you from any unnecessary hurt.
mas para ti......




