Even though I am no longer JW I do have a hope of living forever someday. It doesnt matter to me if it is right after death in heaven or if I wait asleep in Gods memory.
As Neon said Ecclesiastes was written from a human standpoint not from Gods.
We all know our Heavenly Father takes note even when a sparrow falls so of course we are not forgotten by Him. We are only forgotten by other humans.
I think Ecclesiastes makes it clear that for those on earth being alive is better then being dead because once we die we have nothing to do with things here anymore. Not family or business or even earthly pleasures.
For that scripture to be meaningful to anyone it would have to mean (to me that is) that living on earth is better then anyplace else.
Sometimes now I think heaven would be ok but I have still not thought once I died I would be resurrected to Heavenly life.
I remember what was said of these men
*** Rbi8 2 Timothy 2:16-18 *** 17 and their word will spread like gangrene. Hymenae'us and Phile'tus are of that number. 18 These very [men] have deviated from the truth, saying that the resurrection has already occurred; and they are subverting the faith of some.
If they were saying the resurrection already took place they must have meant the heavenly one or else everyone would have noticed an earthly one. All those formerly dead walking around you know.
For me I just Trust in Our Heavenly Father and His Son Our Savior and Redeemer Christ Jesus to do what is best.
What else can I do? Although many things are a curiosity and I do read the bible to see if I can find the answers. Most subjects are not pertinent to ones salvation.
Besides I like surprises and I trust my Maker to give me the best gifts possible.
He already gave me the best children so I know he wont fail me elsewhere.
My 2 cents.
Gotta Luv Yaz,
Utopian_Raindrops