My children and I always sat in back.
Not to avoid anyone or because we were rebels.
It is because when people commented I liked to see them as much as I possibly could.
To see their expressions and body language,etc.
Also, if you sat in back you could tell if someone was in need.
For instance if a sister or bro walked out holding their head. They may have a headache. Then we would follow them and offer Tylenol or Ibuprofen, etc.
Once on Sunday a sister was running out crying and my children and I were able to intercept her. Turned out she needed real help. She was a single mom/grandma taking care of her daughters children.
I was able to get her some gas money and make an appointment with the elders for her.
The gas money helped, as she was not sure how she was getting home. So I felt Jehovah wanted us to see her in distress but The Appointment with The Elders!
That was a flop! They were no help what so ever! Told her to return her grandchildren to her worldly daughter!!! Told her if she didnt then it was her fault she was poor and could barley feed herself and them!!!
Her daughter was/is a crack head!!! Those kids would be abused if returned to a mother who does not want them!!
Needless to say the elders were no help but I am blessed as to still be friends with this brave older woman.
I got off subject.sitting in back was what we did to connect with those in the cong. If we sat in front we would never have known what any of the friends were like. We would have eaten up spiritual food and not noticed if anyone other then us enjoyed the meal much less if they were full.
Thats us.
Gotta luvz you all,
U_R
Edited by - Utopian_raindrops on 15 February 2003 6:35:40