ZERODAY: Our PO was a drunk and so was his drunken son/elder. But like everything in JW land it is who you are and who you know...
We might have been at the same cong!
My father (not a JW) was a heavy drinker, one of my uncle die of liver cirrhosis and the other committed suicide by overdosing on Viagra and alcohol (he died on his mistress, to be found dead by his wife… true story).
Because of the damages that the abuse of alcohol caused in my family, I developed certain respect for it and tried to stay away from it, as I was afraid of following on footsteps of my male role models (they were all cool guys, they just drank a lot).
So, when I became a Witness, I was surprised (and disappointed) at the way the alcohol is almost worshiped. The alcohol culture is very strong among the JW in my area. They used to make jokes about my selves imposed limits on the amount of alcohol that I would consume.
Shortly after I became an Elder, I would go through a 30 oz bottle of vodka or cognac in a week. I was turning into a heavy drinker, 6 months after I stepped aside from being an Elder, my consumption went down to a “normal” level (one or two cups a week) and I don’t desire to drink or feel buzz.