Are fornication and adultery condemned in the Bible? How does one determine if his or her sexual conduct is not fornication?
One word: Life long committment.Why?
1. Fornication: No loving or lifelong commitment is there. You can meet someone on a night out on the town and have sex. No problem. There is no commitment. That is fornication. But do you have to be legally married according to the law of THIS country to avoid being a fornicator? What about the ancient Jews? All they had to do was take a woman that they were commited to home with them and they were considered married. Why should it be different today? Because the US does not recognize marriage unless certain legal documents are signed? I don't see how this could be argued. I love a girl, we move in together and promise to love each other til death...to me, that is marriage.
2. Adultry: This is the rejection of a life long commitement of marriage. Again, this has NOTHING to do with orientation. It is cheating on the commitment that you gave to your partner to be united with them forever.
We have to draw a line between morality and orientation. What is fornication? It is sex outside of a married relationship. It does not specify between man and man, woman and woman, or man and woman.
My point in this post is that Genesis 19 cannot be used to condemn homosexuality if you are doing proper exegesis.
I did not CHOOSE to be attracted to women. I did not wake up one day thinking that I was going to consider women attractive and men not sexually attractive. Gay people are born in the same way. Do you think that the 12 year old that thinks other boys are attractive just woke up and decided to feel that way? I know you enough to know that you don't think that. And neither do I.
I know that there are other scriptures that are seen as rejecting homosexuals. But PROPER exegesis into the scriptures reveals something far different.