Posts by Cagefighter

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This board is full of broken and hurt'n people

by Cagefighter in

jw
friends

but it also has some wonderful information about the org and getting help and moving on.

please don't let the nitwits or my arguments with them keep you from looking at a lot of good info on this site.. peace and farewell,.

cf.

Cagefighter

Yes, I can fix all of you just send $29.95 in check or money order to my P.O. Box in Guam. LOL.

Actually, something I tried that has been very helpful is a kind of age regression I came up with on my own.

Most of my damage happened when I was 14. I decided on Friday to just start living my life as I did the day before it all hit the fan 20 years ago. It really has worked well. When ever I feel the pressure and expectations crushing me, I just tell myself I am 14.

I am living the exact life I would have lived instead of staying home, going through a JC and suffering all the shame and guilt. Maybe I will catch up to my twenties before I retire.. LOL

I don't know how this would work with someone abused or truamatized and a much younger or older age, but for me it is working well. I have processed everything that happened to me so I only recommend this for someone that has worked through the damage otherwise I would just call it denial. I guess now it's a kind of healthy denial now that I have faced the pain.

The world holds a sense of wonder that it did not before. I feel a lot less cynical and my attitude seems to improving.

Maybe LADYLEE can chime in on this tactic if she is reading?

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This board is full of broken and hurt'n people

by Cagefighter in

jw
friends

but it also has some wonderful information about the org and getting help and moving on.

please don't let the nitwits or my arguments with them keep you from looking at a lot of good info on this site.. peace and farewell,.

cf.

Cagefighter

But it also has some wonderful information about the org and getting help and moving on. Please don't let the nitwits or my arguments with them keep you from looking at a lot of good info on this site.

Peace and Farewell,

CF

P.S. Mrs. Jones is a crude, vulgar, and angry, man-hater! Pray for her husband

Sarcasm starts below....

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She refused to Return His Calls After a First Date, Then in Rage, He Rants Out, Very Revealing

by Scott77 in

nb: this is internet re-post lindsay mannering's article.

enjoy reading.

comments (538)|likes (81)if ever there was a reason to hide under the covers with a box of wine and swear off menfor good, this might be it.

Cagefighter

Mrs. Jones- I find your comment about my penis incredibly crude and offensive. I hope the moderators ban you. I would never begin to make disparaging comments about your anatomy because I disagreed with you on an intellectual level.

I am reporting this to the moderators and I hope to never see you on this board again.

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She refused to Return His Calls After a First Date, Then in Rage, He Rants Out, Very Revealing

by Scott77 in

nb: this is internet re-post lindsay mannering's article.

enjoy reading.

comments (538)|likes (81)if ever there was a reason to hide under the covers with a box of wine and swear off menfor good, this might be it.

Cagefighter

OK, I am wrong everyone be afraid of everyone with penis that shows any interest in you what so ever!

He might not just be a needy, emotinal weak person, he could be a KILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLER!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just looked down. OH SHIT! I have a penis too!!!! RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wait how do I run away from me?!!?!?!

Someone help!

CF-out!

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She refused to Return His Calls After a First Date, Then in Rage, He Rants Out, Very Revealing

by Scott77 in

nb: this is internet re-post lindsay mannering's article.

enjoy reading.

comments (538)|likes (81)if ever there was a reason to hide under the covers with a box of wine and swear off menfor good, this might be it.

Cagefighter

NC- so is part of being a "liberated N. American" woman is continuing to date someone that you know you have no future with? No wonder I have no interest in most of the women I date. That seems a little dishonest don't you think?

There is nothing wrong with telling a guy you are not interested. If he starts crossing the line, then yes silence is the best answer followed by a the sound of 12 gauge chambering 00 buckshot if he comes back around.

Mrs. Jones- I can tell by the way you keep accusing this guy of committing a crime that you have never experienced it. It was not an assumption but rather a deduction, and no it is not a bitch it is logic. People that have been in a plane crash don't joke about them. You don't know what I have been through or the true stalkers I have dealt with in my past.

We all must own up to our part men and women.

A good example: The woman I have been talking to recently blew me off last weekend. She was supposed to call me Monday to re-schedule a date. I waited and Today (Thurs) she contacted me. Obviously someone else bailed on her. We all know what is up on these dating sites. No one is a child here. I felt bad for ignoring because that isn't my style. so I just replied back after a couple of hours. "Sorry, but you don't seem very available. I do not think meeting is a good idea. Good Luck" Her reply: "I'm driving" WTF? LOL..... Typical... It's women that usually can not handle the truth. Evade, Gossip, Slander, Evade....

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She refused to Return His Calls After a First Date, Then in Rage, He Rants Out, Very Revealing

by Scott77 in

nb: this is internet re-post lindsay mannering's article.

enjoy reading.

comments (538)|likes (81)if ever there was a reason to hide under the covers with a box of wine and swear off menfor good, this might be it.

Cagefighter

Mrs. Jones- I hope you never have to deal with someone close to you or yourself that is truly stalked. I have dealt with some stalkers and most are truly mentally derranged and it becomes a hopeless situation very fast. Judging from the evidence presented this is just a whiny guy that took his emotions too far. I guess some folks only ambition in life is to be a victim.

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She refused to Return His Calls After a First Date, Then in Rage, He Rants Out, Very Revealing

by Scott77 in

nb: this is internet re-post lindsay mannering's article.

enjoy reading.

comments (538)|likes (81)if ever there was a reason to hide under the covers with a box of wine and swear off menfor good, this might be it.

Cagefighter

Mrs. Jones- I certainly would not embark on such an impossible task as changing your mind. It is already 7PM here and daylight is fading. I was just trying to explain where these feelings come from in a guy.

I am sorry you find it so hard to empathize with another human without having to justify their actions. Other than that I think you are a pretty decent person.

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She refused to Return His Calls After a First Date, Then in Rage, He Rants Out, Very Revealing

by Scott77 in

nb: this is internet re-post lindsay mannering's article.

enjoy reading.

comments (538)|likes (81)if ever there was a reason to hide under the covers with a box of wine and swear off menfor good, this might be it.

Cagefighter

Mrs. Jones- I have said it now twice that Lauren did not owe any Mike a thing. Please re-read. You can hate Mike all you want. I don't know the guy, but I know his feelings. So does everyother man.

It's what we do that counts, not what we feel or even think.

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She refused to Return His Calls After a First Date, Then in Rage, He Rants Out, Very Revealing

by Scott77 in

nb: this is internet re-post lindsay mannering's article.

enjoy reading.

comments (538)|likes (81)if ever there was a reason to hide under the covers with a box of wine and swear off menfor good, this might be it.

Cagefighter

Mrs. Jones - No you didn't hurt my feelings at all. I am guy remember? You responded and brought your armor and sword to the arena. So if anything I feel respected and you should as well.

Let me put this another way:

There are graveyards full of men and women from Cain and Abel up to yesterday of people that got there because someone felt "dissed". Now, I am not one to back down when it comes to the nitty gritty. But don't you think there are times when it would benefit society and ourselves to show good manners and give another person the benefit of the doubt. Just to try and see things their way and let it go, even if it is a little off? I am certainly not talking about someone that threatens or committs an act of violence of course.

Do you think I provoked that crazy girl that went nuts on me? Hell no! I've had my moments too, I could emphatize WHILE standing up for myself. Would I publicly humiliate her and antogonize her even if I didn't deserve her tongue-lashing? No. Why? Because if I did, it makes me just as f-ed up as her.

Water seeks it's own level Mrs. Jones. Lauren and Mike are the same type of person. That is how they ended up on a date in the first place.

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She refused to Return His Calls After a First Date, Then in Rage, He Rants Out, Very Revealing

by Scott77 in

nb: this is internet re-post lindsay mannering's article.

enjoy reading.

comments (538)|likes (81)if ever there was a reason to hide under the covers with a box of wine and swear off menfor good, this might be it.

Cagefighter

So what BTS is saying:

Is a woman was direct and spoke to our caveman like a man and not a sority sister and it illicited a constructive conversation that ended in a happy marriage! How can this be true? Everyone else just keeps say men should just STFU while women are silent princesses. You mean people actually communicated? WOW!

See folks, BTS took it as a sign or respect that she bothered to say something instead of sitting there and being pissed or silent.

Are yall starting to see how this works now?

Congrats BTS, if I ever find a woman that direct and too the point I just might have to hang my spurs up as well.

"Men want to be respected and women want to be loved" Every sucessfull couple I know has figured that one out.