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  Where now?

  by bez in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  its been a long time coming but i kinda think im finally at the point of no return....... right or wrong, i have spoken to my 'friends' about my new feelings and the fact i no longer believe that this is gods chosen people etc etc... and have already been told that if i was to now celebrate my childs birthdays , her 'truth' friends would not be able to come to sleep again and associate with her... (she is 7).

  this is despite the fact they are allowed to play with there non witness friends who live down the road....why??

  the explanation is that their daughter would perhaps feel it is ok to do this when it is not... i ask why could they not just simply explain it is not our family's belief anymore (as my husband is with me on my decision), and my response is that it would be difficult to do that as we once were witnesses and now are not so it would confuse her daughter and make her think its ok to do these things now... .

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  Inkie

  Soldier77: LOLOLOL . . . well, that's another way to say it. LOLOLOL . . . --Inkie
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  Where now?

  by bez in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  its been a long time coming but i kinda think im finally at the point of no return....... right or wrong, i have spoken to my 'friends' about my new feelings and the fact i no longer believe that this is gods chosen people etc etc... and have already been told that if i was to now celebrate my childs birthdays , her 'truth' friends would not be able to come to sleep again and associate with her... (she is 7).

  this is despite the fact they are allowed to play with there non witness friends who live down the road....why??

  the explanation is that their daughter would perhaps feel it is ok to do this when it is not... i ask why could they not just simply explain it is not our family's belief anymore (as my husband is with me on my decision), and my response is that it would be difficult to do that as we once were witnesses and now are not so it would confuse her daughter and make her think its ok to do these things now... .

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  Inkie

  Tec: Yes, Jah is the God of ALL comfort. --Inkie
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  Resurrection of Lazarus only mentioned by John, not others, why?

  by VM44 in

  1. watchtower
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  why is it that the story of the resurrection of lazarus of bethany only is mentioned in the book of john and not in the other three gospel accounts of the life of jesus?.

  the resurrection of lazarus was a major event in the life of jesus, but three writers failed to mention it, why?.

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  AGuest:

  I do not understand, I MUST say, why you WANT to do all of this... ummmm... discussing, debating, and speculating.

  Speaking as a man, because I am one, I must say that I do believe this IS a man thing. This kind of thing is done everywhere--even in law firms. And these days, women join the men in this kind of environment.

  I understand that this kind of discussion may even be "fun"... but is it truly beneficial?

  When I used to engage in this kind of thing, indeed, it was fun. Sometimes it still is. Although I do not engage in this activity hardly any more. However, your question, Is it truly beneficial? is most pertinent. . . . The important thing is to find the Truth (Christ), not necessarily finding the truth of things. I couldn't agree with you more on that.

  --Inkie, a friend of the Nazarene
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  Where now?

  by bez in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  its been a long time coming but i kinda think im finally at the point of no return....... right or wrong, i have spoken to my 'friends' about my new feelings and the fact i no longer believe that this is gods chosen people etc etc... and have already been told that if i was to now celebrate my childs birthdays , her 'truth' friends would not be able to come to sleep again and associate with her... (she is 7).

  this is despite the fact they are allowed to play with there non witness friends who live down the road....why??

  the explanation is that their daughter would perhaps feel it is ok to do this when it is not... i ask why could they not just simply explain it is not our family's belief anymore (as my husband is with me on my decision), and my response is that it would be difficult to do that as we once were witnesses and now are not so it would confuse her daughter and make her think its ok to do these things now... .

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  Aaaah . . . yes . . . that IS one of the secrets--reading around a cited text. Sometimes, oftentimes, it makes ALL the difference in understanding. Have no fear of questioning. It's a good thing. Oh, and one more thing, do not let your "feelings" prevent you from praying to Jah and speaking with Christ. While no one is worthy--each and everyone of us is a sinner and that's exactly the kind of people Christ is calling. He came "to save sinners." I believe him. I hope you do too. So don't allow your feelings of inadequacy hinder you from approaching Jah in prayer through His Son. They are kind. Pour out your heart to them.

  All the best, Bez.

  --Inkie
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  J.R.Brown

  by Mall Cop in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  it's been very quiet concerning him.

  anyone have an update, information on his where-abouts and current position?

  he use to be the spoke-person for the society in the news media etc.

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  Syl!?
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  newbie

  by bobfleur in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hello everyone, my name is bob and i am a recovering jehovah's witness.

  i have a beautiful wife and four equally beautiful children.

  my major malfunction is that i am very much a believer and as most here would agree, some major teachings do not line up in harmony with scripture.. god used the help of a pastor friend of mine and together we were able to show my wife from the bible certain biblical truths do not line up with "the truth".

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  Welcome BobFleur: This can be a most interesting Board. Hope you enjoy. And congratulations! No need to rush into anything though. Take your time. --Inkie
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  Where now?

  by bez in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  its been a long time coming but i kinda think im finally at the point of no return....... right or wrong, i have spoken to my 'friends' about my new feelings and the fact i no longer believe that this is gods chosen people etc etc... and have already been told that if i was to now celebrate my childs birthdays , her 'truth' friends would not be able to come to sleep again and associate with her... (she is 7).

  this is despite the fact they are allowed to play with there non witness friends who live down the road....why??

  the explanation is that their daughter would perhaps feel it is ok to do this when it is not... i ask why could they not just simply explain it is not our family's belief anymore (as my husband is with me on my decision), and my response is that it would be difficult to do that as we once were witnesses and now are not so it would confuse her daughter and make her think its ok to do these things now... .

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  Inkie

  Bez, most interesting. As the Christ said, "Do as they say, not as they do." Why? Because they say "read the context." Notice:

  31 And so Jesus went on to say to the Jews that had believed him: “If YOU remain in my word, YOU are really my disciples, 32 and YOU will know the truth, and the truth will set YOU free.” 33 They replied to him: “We are Abraham’s offspring and never have we been slaves to anybody. [That's a lie, isn't it? Weren't they slaves in Egypt?] How is it you say, ‘Y OU will become free’?” 34 Jesus answered them: “Most truly I say to YOU , Every doer of sin is a slave of sin. 35 Moreover, the slave does not remain in the household forever; the son remains forever. 36 Therefore if the Son sets YOU free, YOU will be actually free. --John 8:31-36.

  Is it not evident then that the Son wants you free? Know the Truth. No doubt you've read and heard over the years the following:

  " This means everlasting life, their taking in knowledge of you, the only true God, and of the one whom you sent forth, Jesus Christ.--John 17:3.

  Yet, the footnote of the big Reference Bible of the New World Translation states (as do other Bibles):

  "This means everlasting life, their knowing you [not taking in knowledge], the only true God and the one whom you sent forth, Jesus Christ."--John 17:30.

  "Knowing" someone is a whole lot different than "taking in knowledge of them." Agreed? In your life, how many biographies have you read? And in so doing you have "taken in knowledge" of that person. But . . . do you/did you know that person? You took in all kinds of facts about that person, but did you know him/her? And more important . . . if THAT person were asked: "Do you know Bez?" That person would say, "No, I'm sorry, I don't." But then you'd reply: "But I know all about you. I know where you were born, what school you went to, who you married, how many kids you have, etc., etc., etc." But THAT person would reiterate, "Sorry. I don't know you." And you'd be completely out of luck.

  It's the same with Jah and Christ. You must KNOW THEM. They must KNOW you.

  --Inkie
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  Where now?

  by bez in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  its been a long time coming but i kinda think im finally at the point of no return....... right or wrong, i have spoken to my 'friends' about my new feelings and the fact i no longer believe that this is gods chosen people etc etc... and have already been told that if i was to now celebrate my childs birthdays , her 'truth' friends would not be able to come to sleep again and associate with her... (she is 7).

  this is despite the fact they are allowed to play with there non witness friends who live down the road....why??

  the explanation is that their daughter would perhaps feel it is ok to do this when it is not... i ask why could they not just simply explain it is not our family's belief anymore (as my husband is with me on my decision), and my response is that it would be difficult to do that as we once were witnesses and now are not so it would confuse her daughter and make her think its ok to do these things now... .

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  Inkie

  Bez, there is probably more truth in your last statement than you realize. It's wonderful to acknowledge your closeness with Jah and Christ. It will make your heart truly rejoice. You stated that your husband feels much the same as you. No doubt you've shared your feelings and thoughts with him. Continue to do so as he is your first friend when it comes to "making" friends. When you pray to Jah, through His Christ, ask Him to reveal the Truth to you. Not the truth (of things/stuff)--but to know the Truth (Christ). "I am the Way the Truth and the Life," Christ said. Believe it, believe him. You'll be just fine. All the best.

  --Inkie
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  Where now?

  by bez in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  its been a long time coming but i kinda think im finally at the point of no return....... right or wrong, i have spoken to my 'friends' about my new feelings and the fact i no longer believe that this is gods chosen people etc etc... and have already been told that if i was to now celebrate my childs birthdays , her 'truth' friends would not be able to come to sleep again and associate with her... (she is 7).

  this is despite the fact they are allowed to play with there non witness friends who live down the road....why??

  the explanation is that their daughter would perhaps feel it is ok to do this when it is not... i ask why could they not just simply explain it is not our family's belief anymore (as my husband is with me on my decision), and my response is that it would be difficult to do that as we once were witnesses and now are not so it would confuse her daughter and make her think its ok to do these things now... .

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  Inkie

  Bez, thank you for the compliment. You are kind.

  Making a "worldly" friend was one of the best things I ever did for myself. Just be careful with that word. All it really means in a witness context is someone who is NOT a witness--it doesn't mean they are really worldly, if you get my drift. You will know the kind of people to choose to have and keep around you for the happiness of your family. Trust in Jah and His Christ and when you do, you can't go wrong. How many times have we (on the inside of our being) known what is right but did the wrong because of what "others" told us and, of course, we complied (knowing on the inside) that what we complied with was not right. You know what is right and what is wrong and if ever in doubt, just ask the Christ. He will tell you. You don't need anyone else. All the best.

  --Inkie
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  Where now?

  by bez in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  its been a long time coming but i kinda think im finally at the point of no return....... right or wrong, i have spoken to my 'friends' about my new feelings and the fact i no longer believe that this is gods chosen people etc etc... and have already been told that if i was to now celebrate my childs birthdays , her 'truth' friends would not be able to come to sleep again and associate with her... (she is 7).

  this is despite the fact they are allowed to play with there non witness friends who live down the road....why??

  the explanation is that their daughter would perhaps feel it is ok to do this when it is not... i ask why could they not just simply explain it is not our family's belief anymore (as my husband is with me on my decision), and my response is that it would be difficult to do that as we once were witnesses and now are not so it would confuse her daughter and make her think its ok to do these things now... .

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  Inkie

  Dear Bez:

  Welcome to the Board. Regardless of what your feelings might be from minute to minute, hour to hour, day to day, week to week, month to month, they are all valid. Recognize them for what they are. You don't necessarily have to act on them though. Sometimes inaction is the best action--sometimes. You will find many intelligent things spoken here on this Board. You'll also find things not-so-intelligent. You must decide what you will accept and what you should reject. But know this . . . no doubt, as a witness . . . you have heard the question asked: "Where shall we go?" The brothers quoting that biblical text right and left and every which way. But take note, Bez, the true biblical questions was: "Whom shall we go away to?" Not "where." The "whom" IS Christ and His Father Jah. Pray to the Father, speak with the Christ.

  All the best!

  --Inkie