Posts by Joyzabel

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Finally

by Lady Lee in

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after 9 long months of living in a shelter at the y here in ottawa in one tiny room --- .

i have finally got a place to live.. it is small and i will have to get rid of a few things - ok a lot of things but i will have a home again.

it is a small apartment in a seniors residence.

Joyzabel

well.....do you have running water???

lol, good to see ya back. Just give it some time and all the little things will get straightened out.

Hugs,

Joy

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Living Alone... How Do You Do It?

by FMZ in

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as you guys may know, i don't ask too many questions on the forum, as i feel that i have a pretty good grasp on things.

but this... i am clueless on..

starting sometime next week, i will have my own apartment.

Joyzabel

~suddenly remembers he never had a house-warming~

fix it up and they will come. just j/king. I loved your place. Great party place.

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would you go back ??

by orangefatcat in

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if you were given a chance to go back to the organizations would you?

Dungeons and Dragons game & JW urban legends

by rebel8 in

does anyone remember this game from (i think) the early '80s?

it's a role playing game of some sort that included some violent imagery or something.. i remember jws (and the media, come to think of it) making a big, big deal of it.

something like it was demonized or made kids murder people.

Joyzabel

I smell a JW urban legend here

It was even reported in People magazine that they were JWs. They were in the Delavan Congregation in Wisconsin.

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THEY MURDERED MY DAUGHTER - WILL YOU HELP ?????

by SHUNNED FATHER in

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two leading oncologists both agree that my daughter bethany might be alive today if she had not been fed arsenic.

as you may recall, the wts arranged to take my sick daughter into hiding for two months and payed a doctor to prescribe arsenic.

the doctor ant the wts lawyers convinced bethany that the arsenic treatment could cure her.

Joyzabel

Shunned Father, my heart goes out to you. I cannot imagine losing one of my children to the fake blood policy of the WT. It was bad enough losing my father and father-in-law to the blood issue.

Please people, DO NOT FEED THE TROLLS. This thread is for Shunned Father. Please ignore the ignorant people who want to hog the thread. Ignore bad behavior.

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Dungeons and Dragons game & JW urban legends

by rebel8 in

does anyone remember this game from (i think) the early '80s?

it's a role playing game of some sort that included some violent imagery or something.. i remember jws (and the media, come to think of it) making a big, big deal of it.

something like it was demonized or made kids murder people.

Joyzabel

My sister-in-law, who lives in WI, said the couple who created that game were in her congregation and when they became "rich", they left the "truth". So you know us JW's couldn't play that game.

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What do I tell my mother?

by Confession in

the facts.... -3rd generation of a 4-generation witness family.

30 members of my family are in--including my mother, father, 3 siblings and their mates and children.

(other relatives too.

Joyzabel

Welcome to the board, confession.

First of all I don't think it is a black or white issue.

So which is it? Be frank--or just dodge it?

There are too many variables to have only one answer. There may be many, many ways to play out your hand. But think about how it will effect your parents/siblings/other family members/etc and be true to yourself.

You maybe "stumbled" about learning about the UN/NGO thing and want to look into it, for example. But put the burden on the WT and their lies/childabuse/blood policy/df'ing/etc on why you need to really look at things.

*shrug*

just a thought

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Wish me luck

by Es in

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i have an appointment on monday with a plastic surgeon, i have had a sunspot on my face for many years i have had it looked at before, no one was really stressed bout it.

but over the last couple of weeks its been changing shape and colour!!!!

so im booked in on monday for consultation where they will determine whether is begnin or cancerous and hopefully remove it.

Joyzabel

luck!

hope all goes well.

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Birth of a Princess

by czarofmischief in

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hey guys.

she arrived today.

6 lb 14 oz.

Joyzabel

ahhhhhh..............babies are so sweet!

congrats to Czar et al!

Now, let the mother have some rest, too.

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confusion

by inarock&ahardplace in

i am going through a difficult time with my feelings on things.

i have a really good friend that helps me with research she has done in regards to "is this the true religion", but has anyone else out there been so torn that even with evidence one way or another in front of you, you still feel empty when you think of not having the 'truth' in your life?

i have 3 children and was raised in the 'truth' so was my husband.

Joyzabel

welcome to the board.

yes, I was litterally dizzy for days after reading Crisis of Conscience when the house of cards came tumbling down. It like takes the breath away from you, wind out of your sails, etc, etc, etc. But it is better to work through the mental process of "deprogramming" than to live lies.

Be patient with yourself and family. Remember the basic, love yourself and love your family. There is nothing to hurry for anymore, so take the time to allow yourself to grieve over your loss (it's real to you, even thought it was built on a fairtale) and allow at least 2 years to figure out who you are and what to do with the rest of your life.

I call it a right of passage. Anyone who has been in a "high congrol" group needs time to get over the blow to your psychie.

Hugs,

Joy