- How about asking them what this is about? So u can prepare. If they wont, then tell them you will not be able to attend until they do.
- If it just a Shepard call then have them set it up with you alone, since u are an adult.
- If it is just a sheparding call you can opt out by saying u are doing well and will let them know when u feel the need for encouragement.
If it is something-else have them state what it is beforehand, and if it directed at u then the meeting will be with u alone.
Be kind yet firm....be humble yet assure them this is your decision and not anyone else's.
They know why they want to talk to u so you should know why beforehand.
Quote this: 1 Cor. 14:33, 40: “God is a God, not of disorder, but of peace. . . . Let all things take place decently and by arrangement.”
Tell them this is how you conduct yourself, and u choose to know what their theme for this meeting is. Is it encouragement, fact finding or? Let them tell u what it is then respond with kindness yet be resolved...if it's for encouragement and u dont want it , tell them you will reach out if needed.
If its sonething else...then you will need time to prepare for it.
SW