Welcome to the forum GrandmaJones! I'm happy you've realized the truth about the WTS. We are here to help you and to listen. You've been given some great advice. Please sit back and let things settle. It is extremely traumatic and shocking to have your whole foundation ripped from under you. Be cautious as to who you talk to. Be kind to yourself as this takes time to sort through. This is a great place get support. Many lovely people here to help you through this journey.
I wish you all the best. You are in my thoughts.
Hugs being sent!
Hadit