That sounds familiar. I am curious what your point is?
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What difference does it make if we are born in?
by wanderlustguy inborn in, what difference does it make?.
i was thinking about this one a lot over the last few weeks.
what difference does it make whether you were born into a cult or were brought in as a teen or adult?
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Wanderlustguy, you are something else. That was awesome. I think that is publish-worthy. I got everything, everything. Everything except that part about confident "s's." Haha. Really, I need a little help with that one. But everything else I got. (Did I mention that? )
I am a born in and I loved what you wrote.
StAnn, Big Hugs. Awww...I feel a lot of what you've said.
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No. How can I know you will keep your word? How do I know you will care for me and keep me secure, as I define (not as you define)?
Why would I ever give another person total unthinking obedience? What if I was asked to do what I didn't want to? What I felt unconscionable?
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But once that freedom is sold, the slaveowner can choose to do with his slave however he wants. He can starve them.
A freeman can determine his own path. He can trade his birthright for soup.
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I wonder what that slave meant? I think there is a huge difference between a well fed slave and a starving free man. Self-determination.
As a woman, I don't want to be "kept" literally. I would like to be cared for. The main difference for me is, a loving relationship is chosen. It is like the relationship between friends, where neither owns or controls the other, yet they both choose to be together, moment by moment. They each choose to care for eachother. Neither keeps the other.
How do you see it?
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@ "can you own your lover." Well, I think you can in the Old Testamant, and maybe the New? (Man-->woman/child)
I think ownership directly conflicts with self-determination and obviously interferes with "respect and honor, love and cherish." I mean, how can you love and cherish something when controlling them, and taking away a most precious basic right?
I think the very act of control is what smothers out any love that could've grown. I think about this not only in the man/woman husbandly owner/ownee relationship, but also in the God/believer relationship.
Any who believe they are slaves of Christ/God and feel they can love God, I'd like to know if that's possible.
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bump
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Can you love your owner?
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What I don't get is how JWs can't see how their ideas paint God to be a terrorist
by gubberningbody inme - "whatcha doin?".
jw - "preaching to "save lives"?".
me - "who's gonna do the killing?".
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AMEN!
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Why Watchtower Teaching On Armageddon Is A Myth
by Scott77 inat romans 6:1-14, we read in part, but especially at 6:7, " for he who has died has been freed from sin.
... we have died with respect to the wrath that sin incurs, having had our sins forgiven".
now stop and think.
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ALL mind control cults do this to members. --Flipper
Flipper, will you provide some examples on how other cults do this?