can i ask for your opinion?
i have been disfellowshipped and divorced for a few years.
my ex-wife and my daughter have cut off all contact from me.
if i seem hard or cynical--its because i am. ive been there--times 3. now my 3 are grown up--but 1 is d/f & now is in contact with me.
only one way to play it---the money. you hand it over AFTER you get your access visit.
no visit==no money.
its all she will care about.
trust me.
can i ask for your opinion?
i have been disfellowshipped and divorced for a few years.
my ex-wife and my daughter have cut off all contact from me.
ok--markw1509---lets see who you believe.
lets say a court gives you access rights--lets say 1 weekend a month. you live 300 miles away. you travel there--by arrangement.
you find a note on the door--" weve gone to the district assembly--see you next month"
next month--you turn up--"sorry--the kid has a headcold--see you next month"
next month--" sorry--theres an R in the month"
how long till you join the army of dispossessed dads?
can i ask for your opinion?
i have been disfellowshipped and divorced for a few years.
my ex-wife and my daughter have cut off all contact from me.
paying alimoney--or child maintenance--has nothing whatsoever with accesss rights.
as regards these payments--its all to do with the ability to pay. here in the UK--we have the CSA--which is simply a tax on fathers to pay based on their income. it is hated.
ive known dads pay up child maintenance--only to find its used to fund the ex's drink or drug habits--plus any loser she may have shacked up with.
(no--i dont mean JW's )
i think the islamics have the right idea: muslim men who have married UK women --and started a family--if it goes tits-up they simply abscond back to their homeland --taking their sprogs with them---then let mummy go through all the pain of trying to get the kids back. fat chance.
i want to buy ---m 6 xjw--------put a plastic screw cap on the 6 to create---MG XJW. ( good evening officer ) put it on the MGF.
honeybee--i'm on facebook---stan livedeath ( [email protected] )--welcome to add me --(and anyone else )
i'm quite new to this site, & have realised some members have a union jack symbol under their avatar.
i don't.. could we have a "show of hands" from any uk members?
i've already found several by reading older posts..
hi honeybee--welcome to this place. i'm from Brum originally--but marooned on the isle of wight now
can i ask for your opinion?
i have been disfellowshipped and divorced for a few years.
my ex-wife and my daughter have cut off all contact from me.
maybe things are different here in the UK--but if a court gives you "defined access" to your kid---and your ex wont co-operate--there is nothing you can do about it. believe me. can you seriously imagine taking a police officer with you to enforce an access visit !!
how many ex wives are in prison for ignoring a court order---? there are more single mums in prison for not paying their TV licence.
can i ask for your opinion?
i have been disfellowshipped and divorced for a few years.
my ex-wife and my daughter have cut off all contact from me.
Stop paying and they will soon contact you!
George is right--its your only bargaining chip. but its hard if the ex plays the "starving kid " card.
