did anyhone in lonmdon go to the edgeware assembly this weekend?
my wife went today (sunday).
any hints on the topics discussed would be helpful for me to talk about it with her.
hi wakingup60--welcome to the site. several of us in portsmouth--if you havent already discovered.
i'm over on the i o wight. your welcome to add me on facebook===stanlivedeath"at"gmail.com.
heres a link to others in the UK
http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/197364/1/ex-jw-uk#.Ulqjl9KUTN0
can i ask for your opinion?
i have been disfellowshipped and divorced for a few years.
my ex-wife and my daughter have cut off all contact from me.
if i seem hard or cynical--its because i am. ive been there--times 3. now my 3 are grown up--but 1 is d/f & now is in contact with me.
only one way to play it---the money. you hand it over AFTER you get your access visit.
no visit==no money.
its all she will care about.
trust me.
can i ask for your opinion?
i have been disfellowshipped and divorced for a few years.
my ex-wife and my daughter have cut off all contact from me.
ok--markw1509---lets see who you believe.
lets say a court gives you access rights--lets say 1 weekend a month. you live 300 miles away. you travel there--by arrangement.
you find a note on the door--" weve gone to the district assembly--see you next month"
next month--you turn up--"sorry--the kid has a headcold--see you next month"
next month--" sorry--theres an R in the month"
how long till you join the army of dispossessed dads?
can i ask for your opinion?
i have been disfellowshipped and divorced for a few years.
my ex-wife and my daughter have cut off all contact from me.
paying alimoney--or child maintenance--has nothing whatsoever with accesss rights.
as regards these payments--its all to do with the ability to pay. here in the UK--we have the CSA--which is simply a tax on fathers to pay based on their income. it is hated.
ive known dads pay up child maintenance--only to find its used to fund the ex's drink or drug habits--plus any loser she may have shacked up with.
(no--i dont mean JW's )
i think the islamics have the right idea: muslim men who have married UK women --and started a family--if it goes tits-up they simply abscond back to their homeland --taking their sprogs with them---then let mummy go through all the pain of trying to get the kids back. fat chance.
i want to buy ---m 6 xjw--------put a plastic screw cap on the 6 to create---MG XJW. ( good evening officer ) put it on the MGF.
honeybee--i'm on facebook---stan livedeath ( [email protected] )--welcome to add me --(and anyone else )
i'm quite new to this site, & have realised some members have a union jack symbol under their avatar.
i don't.. could we have a "show of hands" from any uk members?
i've already found several by reading older posts..
hi honeybee--welcome to this place. i'm from Brum originally--but marooned on the isle of wight now
can i ask for your opinion?
i have been disfellowshipped and divorced for a few years.
my ex-wife and my daughter have cut off all contact from me.
maybe things are different here in the UK--but if a court gives you "defined access" to your kid---and your ex wont co-operate--there is nothing you can do about it. believe me. can you seriously imagine taking a police officer with you to enforce an access visit !!
how many ex wives are in prison for ignoring a court order---? there are more single mums in prison for not paying their TV licence.
