Thanks for your reply. Sorry not having kids in my late 30's that shoulda happened in my 20s. I should have been married and had kids in my 20s. My mom had me at 19, and it's good that she started early. Things have really worked out for her but not for me. I'm gonna end up in some serious poverty, I can see it coming. I think it will probably have to do with something medically. I'm not having kids if I don't have support. There's no way that is happening to me. I'm not looking to get married but I was just making the point that should have happened a long time ago. It is what it is.
If I had a kid at 39, I'd be 60 when my child is 21. I may not even be around by then. I should have had children when I was younger.