Sorry about what you're going through, Snowboarder. I'm afraid that you made a bit of a mistake there when you sent your parents links to these "apostate" websites which are, according to your mom, full of "lies". The problem is that JWs are under major mind control and they simply aren't going to listen to facts. You have to take a different approach. Many on this website have suggested that JWs on their way out read the book Combatting Cult Mind Control by Steve Hassan to help deal with family still on the inside. You should give that a look.
I find it hilarious (sorry) that your mom was talking about her being so much older and wiser than you are. There are people here who are much older than your parents who have just started waking up only recently. Age and experience have little to do with it! It has more to do with a person's ability to be honest with themselves and face the fact that they may have been wrong about something they've believed for a long time.
I also find it interesting that your mom accuses you of sending her info that's full of lies and then she, in turn, tells you lies about the WTS herself. It is an established fact that the JWs preach that those who are not baptized are dead meat when the big A comes. JWs DO have contempt for those who are not among their own. The only difference lies in how strongly one adheres to various JW teachings as they are all individuals despite the WTS' attempts to folks of any and all individuality.
I have no idea whether there is any hope that can be held out for your parents. I, personally, don't bother with talking about the religion with my family and I won't until I see signs of them willing to question what they've accepted for most of their lives. Until then, it's pointless. I wish you better luck with that in the future anyway...
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