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Following Hassan's Book: Chapter 3

by ILoveTTATT in

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this is part 3 of a series of posts i plan to make.

the book has 16 chapters.. i will write my comments of steven hassan's latest book, freedom of mind: helping loved ones leave controlling people, cults, and beliefs.. you can purchase the book in amazon.com, there is a kindle version which is very handy since you can read it wherever you have internet connection, or if you have an iphone, an ipad, android phone, etc.. you can get it here:.

http://www.amazon.com/freedom-mind-helping-controlling-beliefs-ebook/dp/b008haiwiw/ref=sr_1_1_bnp_1_kin?ie=utf8&qid=1384750710&sr=8-1&keywords=freedom+of+mind.

ABibleStudent

Hi ILoveTTATT, I'm glad that you listened and were able to read Hassan's book before you told other JWs about TTATT.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

P.S. - Here are three threads that I wrote about Steve Hassan's book "Combatting Cult Mind Control" about 2 years ago for those who might like to compare the differences between Steve Hassan's books:

Combating Destructive Mind Control – Part I

Combating Destructive Mind Control – Part II

Part III contains some ideas that I had about helping people who are born into a dangerous cult. Most of the ideas I still believe in with a few minor tweaks, and I have learned more ideas by participating in JWN and reading other people's threads.

Combating Destructive Mind Control – Part III

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Following Hassan's Book: Chapter 1

by ILoveTTATT in

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i think to the benefit of all, i will write my comments of steven hassan's latest book, freedom of mind: helping loved ones leave controlling people, cults, and beliefs.. you can purchase the book in amazon.com, there is a kindle version which is very handy since you can read it wherever you have internet connection, or if you have an iphone, an ipad, android phone, etc.. you can get it here: .

http://www.amazon.com/freedom-mind-helping-controlling-beliefs-ebook/dp/b008haiwiw/ref=sr_1_1_bnp_1_kin?ie=utf8&qid=1384750710&sr=8-1&keywords=freedom+of+mind.

the first chapter talks about determining whether a particular group is a cult.. "destructive cults are distinguished by their use of deception and extreme influence.".

ABibleStudent

KateWild - Anyone have any advice which to buy first?

Hi KateWild, What do you want to accomplish after reading Hassan's books? Have you read reviews by other readers on Amazon.com or some other seller to help you decide?

Steve Hassan's later books will probably contain more proven information than his first book "Combatting Cult Mind Control" as he refined his model/strategies. On the other hand "Combatting Cult Mind Control" does not include the WTBTS in the body of the book, because Steve Hassan was not aware of the WTBTS when he wrote that book. When I read the titles of Steve Hassan's books, I feel that his first book describes his personal experience being a Moonie and how he was helped to leave the Moonies, what is Mind Control, and how he helped clients overcome BITE control techniques. His second book is more about empowering people to critically think for themselves to free themselves from BITE control techniques. His third book is more about what individuals can do to help loved ones leave controlling people, cults and beliefs.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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Wonder How This Protest Would Work Against WTS?

by metatron in

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http://www.neatorama.com/2007/09/03/clowns-kicked-kkk-asses/#!oie2k.

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funny but maybe effective, too.. metatron.

ABibleStudent

How about a sign with "Loving Apostate gives HUGS - JW parents won't!"?

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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Following Hassan's Book: Chapter 1

by ILoveTTATT in

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i think to the benefit of all, i will write my comments of steven hassan's latest book, freedom of mind: helping loved ones leave controlling people, cults, and beliefs.. you can purchase the book in amazon.com, there is a kindle version which is very handy since you can read it wherever you have internet connection, or if you have an iphone, an ipad, android phone, etc.. you can get it here: .

http://www.amazon.com/freedom-mind-helping-controlling-beliefs-ebook/dp/b008haiwiw/ref=sr_1_1_bnp_1_kin?ie=utf8&qid=1384750710&sr=8-1&keywords=freedom+of+mind.

the first chapter talks about determining whether a particular group is a cult.. "destructive cults are distinguished by their use of deception and extreme influence.".

ABibleStudent

Hi ILoveTTATT, I'm glad that you are reading Steve Hassan's book. He has a lot of good ideas and rereading his books can help people to understand even more.

I'm curious why you wrote JW's are a cult. Dangerous cults like to use cult speak so that words can have multiple meanings. I prefer to refer to the Watchtower organization as the WTBTS and to individual Jehovah's Witnesses as JWs. The WTBTS would probably like that JW's refers to Jehovah, the organization, and to individuals so that JWs feel there is no difference.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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this site sucks! its just a buncha athiest on soap boxes.

by crossquestions6995 in

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this site is not a healthy forum for discussion or healing.

its an arena for jaded athiests to bash anything christian or god related.

yes, i know the jw's lied to us about god and the truth.

ABibleStudent

Hi crossquestions6995, Not everyone on JWN is an atheist. I'm a christian.

If you don't like other people's opinions then ignor them just like the WTBTS teaches JWs. I on the otherhand appreciate discussions about differing opinions to gain a greater understanding of what is factual and/or the truth.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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Do not talk about GAWD in Cracker Barrel on Sunday

by confusedandalone in

so this morning the wife and i went to cracker barrel for breakfast.

my lovely sister watched the kids for us last night so we have to pick them up later.. anyway a few minutes later the family sits at a table next to us.

their food comes and they begin to pray.they all join hands and he begins praying out loud.. very loud.. so out of respect my wife and i stop talking... they eat and we eat no biggie.

ABibleStudent

Hi confusedandalone, No, you handled as wel as could be expected. Some people believe that everyone should feel the way that they do - narcissit is a narcissit whether they are a christian, atheist, theist, jew, muslim, JW, or whatever belief.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

P.S. - There are a lot better restaurants then Cracker Barrel that serve much better food.

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NNew member...1st post

by Oh Gawd in

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new guy here so i thought i would make a brief introduction.. my exposure to the jw's is indirect, as i have never been a member; however my wife of 22 years grew up in a jw household.

her dad is the grand-pooba or whatever level of "elder" you call it for his kh.

her mom, sister, brother, and their spouses all died in the wool witnesses.

ABibleStudent

Oh Gawd - Actually my FIL is a really smart guy. So smart that it surprises me he could fall for this bunk. I suspect one of the reasons he consistently spars with me is due to his own self doubt. Either that our he's a masochist.

Hi Oh Gawd, Welcome to going down the rabbit hole and entering WTBTS Wonderland. Please do not confuse being smart with being immune to BITE control techniques. Anyone can be susptible to BITE control especially if they are born-in to a dangerous cult. i do not know why your wife was able to break-free, but feel very, very blessed that she did because you love her and your children.

Best of wishes to you and your family.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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NNew member...1st post

by Oh Gawd in

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new guy here so i thought i would make a brief introduction.. my exposure to the jw's is indirect, as i have never been a member; however my wife of 22 years grew up in a jw household.

her dad is the grand-pooba or whatever level of "elder" you call it for his kh.

her mom, sister, brother, and their spouses all died in the wool witnesses.

ABibleStudent

Oh Gawd - Actually my FIL is a really smart guy. So smart that it surprises me he could fall for this bunk. I suspect one of the reasons he consistently spars with me is due to his own self doubt. Either that our he's a masochist.

Hi Oh Gawd, Welcome to going down the rabbit hole and entering WTBTS Wonderland. Please do not confuse being smart with being immune to BITE control techniques. Anyone can be susptible to BITE control especially if they are born-in to a dangerous cult. i do not know why your wife was able to break-free, but feel very, very blessed that she did because you love her and your children.

Best of wishes to you and your family.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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NNew member...1st post

by Oh Gawd in

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new guy here so i thought i would make a brief introduction.. my exposure to the jw's is indirect, as i have never been a member; however my wife of 22 years grew up in a jw household.

her dad is the grand-pooba or whatever level of "elder" you call it for his kh.

her mom, sister, brother, and their spouses all died in the wool witnesses.

ABibleStudent

Oh Gawd - Then loud enough for him to hear, in the next room I ask my 15 year old, science whiz, daugther to please teach grandpa about the Cretaceous period so he stops making a fool of himself in public:)

Hi Oh Gawd, You have already admitted in your own post to help your FIL to critically think for himself. Critically thinking for himself does not mean your FIL and his wife would leave the WTBTS. They would be free to choose for themselves. If you would like to learn quickly more about Steve Hassan's BITE control model and how dangerous cults like the WTBTS victimize members, just watch the following video: Strategic Interactive Approach explained 2003 (1:23:23). Knowledge is power so what do you have to lose other than 1:23:23 hours of your life.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert

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NNew member...1st post

by Oh Gawd in

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new guy here so i thought i would make a brief introduction.. my exposure to the jw's is indirect, as i have never been a member; however my wife of 22 years grew up in a jw household.

her dad is the grand-pooba or whatever level of "elder" you call it for his kh.

her mom, sister, brother, and their spouses all died in the wool witnesses.

ABibleStudent

Welcome Oh Gawd, People are people no matter how hard the WTBTS trys to indoctrinate JWs to conform and use the approved JW platitudes. If you want to have more fun with your JW relatives, please read Steve Hassan's books (i.e., "Combatting Cult Mind Control", "Releasing the Bonds: Empowering People to Think for Themselves", and (his latest book) "Freedom of Mind: Helping Loved Ones Leave Controlling People, Cults and Beliefs"), visit his website www.freedomofmind.com, and/or watch his videos on his website. After becoming familar with Steve Hassan's methods you can have fun either helping your JW in-laws critically think for themselves and become free of the WTBTS, or twisting them up in their in cognitive disonnance.

According to Steve Hassan's BITE control model, members of dangerous cults develop both an authentic persona and a cult persona. I would guess that your in-laws' authentic personas likes money too and they have to figure out ways to rationalize ways to overcome their cult personas and the WTBTS's rules to satisfy their authentic personas' desires. By the way your FIL's semi-schizophrenic behavior can probably be explained by Steve Hassan's BITE model.

Best of wishes helping your family to critically think for themselves.

Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

Robert