Cappy.........she is not stupid .....she knows what she is doing. She knows all your buttons & when to push them! Deep down she still thinks of you as her 'little boy' that she can order around. She wants you to do as you are told! I am not kidding.
Put on your BIG BOY PANTS now ........ actually this will help your Mother to grow-up!
All the best from an old gal............
clarity