Essan said, "Bull. Do you sometimes forget that you are talking to people with decades of experience as JW's? Your lies won't fly here. The 'unity' you described it based on being required to accept without question the teachings of the Society. As the Watchtower says: "he has complete confidence in the truth as it is revealed by ..."the faithful and discreet slave.", and article shows, this isn't a description of how things are, it's a command as to how they must be. As the Watchtower also says:
"If we have love for Jehovah and for the Organization of his people we shall not be suspicious, but shall, as the Bible says, "believe all things," all things that the Watchtower brings out."
So, belief in and agreement with all that the Society says is not optional. All Witnesses must agree with the Society. It is this slavish obedience to a Corporation which unites them. And this 'agreement' is enforced with sanctions."
If you do not believe the Watchtower (the faithful and discreet slave's principle means of teaching) has backing from God, you don't have to agree with anything it says. This is not enforced with sanctions and there is no one that can or does force anyone to stay in the organization. If a person is in a corporation and they start doing things that are a conflict of interest, there will be immediate consequences, up to and including termination. Jehovah's Witnesses will take quite a bit of time and patience to reason with a person. Common sense 101: If you directly conflict with most organizations (profit or non-profit) as an active member and voice your dissent to other members, it will create problems. You'll likely be asked or forced to take your voice of dissent elsewhere unless others agree. If it's constructive criticism because something is broken and needs to be fixed, that's one thing. But, if millions of people in the organization disagree with what needs fixing, you should start your own private, public club elsewhere.
Anyone in the organization that was there for decades was there for a reason. There are many people who have a job(s) they do not enjoy. Some people are locked into a job they hate. But it is their means of income, so they have little choice in the matter. If someone doesn't enjoy attending the meetings and other theocratic activities, they will cease participating in them.
Even those in other religions, true or false like what they're doing and get some enjoyment out of it, or they wouldn't be there. If they do plummet into disbelief, the difference is they many times can't answer some of the most fundamental questions like, why does God permit suffering?
"A mature Christian must be in unity [conformity of belief] and full harmony with fellow believers as far as faith and knowledge are concerned. He does not advocate or insist on personal opinions or harbour private ideas when it comes to Bible understanding.
He "must", he has no free choice. He is even forbidden from "harbouring PRIVATE ideas" and opinions! He is not even permitted freedom in his own mind! And you deny the JW's are "High Control"? you're insane."
Again, a person doesn't have to do, anything they do not want to. A person can choose to reject the faithful and discreet slave as a channel of communication used by God. He has a choice as you've obviously made yours. You can also go to the meetings and think whatever you want, (no one can read your mind), although if you disagree with what you hear, why attend?
lv chap. 1 p. 10 par. 12 “This Is What the Love of God Means”
Jehovah created us as free moral agents. This means that we have freedom of choice; we can choose to obey God, or we can choose to disobey him.
"This is where your lie about "choice" is exposed. Why do those who disagree often remain? Because they don't want to be disfellowshipped and made an outcast in the Congregation and have their lifelong friends never speak to them again and have family members, even their children, shun them! Because they have no free choice because it has been denied them by this "high control" cult! If they disagree and this becomes known the price in terms of sanctions by the congregation and the terrible consequences thereof can be too much for many people to bear!"
There's nothing in the society's publications that indicates a person is disfellowshipped for disagreeing. The criteria for getting disfellowshipped for apostasy has been clearly laid out in the articles I posted and there are many others that say the same thing: complete and consistent opposition to the organization. In twenty years, I have never witnessed anyone get disfellowshipped for disagreeing with something the society publishes or anything they hear at the Kingdom Hall. You have whatever stories you can tell on the internet and I have my own direct observation. I have never witnessed anyone do the right thing because of fear of being disfellowshipped. 70% of my family are Jehovah's Witnesses. Two have been disfellowshipped. It's well known, the family is of little importance to them. They know the door is always open if they choose to return.