Posts by bez

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All the accusations- and no substance....how SHOCKING!

by theMadJW in

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friends

are there pretenders in our brotherhood- as in all religion- that do what is evil?.

yes.. have we made stupid guesses about some of the prophecies, as all churches do?.

yes.. does our "organization" make mistakes- as, you guessed it, all do?.

bez

Do YOU preacyh the Good News of the Kingdom...by coming to THIS site?

Nope, i come to this site purely to find relief from the unchristlike 'brothers' of the org.

Coming here, makes me realise that there are many i can draw comfort from who are also treated in an 'unchristlike' manner, and makes me realise for a certainty that i have made the right decision in leaving a man made organization that are clearly NOT directed by God, and could even be called bloodguilty in many ways.

Coming here, makes me determined to be a better person, and helps me to find an unconditional 'people' who are also trying to do there best in their relationship with God and Christ.

Coming here and reading posts like yours , and others on your wavelength confirms i made the right decison in my life... so i have you to thank too MadJW!

I choose to demonstrate my love for God and Christ in my actions, and by my 'works' people will know i am a good person striving to be a good christian....

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All the accusations- and no substance....how SHOCKING!

by theMadJW in

jw
friends

are there pretenders in our brotherhood- as in all religion- that do what is evil?.

yes.. have we made stupid guesses about some of the prophecies, as all churches do?.

yes.. does our "organization" make mistakes- as, you guessed it, all do?.

bez

sorry, i got bored of reading the lengthy pages, but surely the very fact you are here mocking every un-beliver of the org shows you have some kind of loyalties too them, otherwise you could just be like most of us on here, have your own belief purely in God and not feel the need to follow 'men' just so that you can recieve some of their publications and go out and preach (you CAN do this without them you know)!

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All the accusations- and no substance....how SHOCKING!

by theMadJW in

jw
friends

are there pretenders in our brotherhood- as in all religion- that do what is evil?.

yes.. have we made stupid guesses about some of the prophecies, as all churches do?.

yes.. does our "organization" make mistakes- as, you guessed it, all do?.

bez

hahaha , i still cant believe you are actually on here? And i reported you to your p.o too!!

Still, if its helping to increase your faith in the org then good for you! (but dont kid urself)!

26

need to get over it but cant :(

by bez in

jw
friends

i text my little girls friends mum today as her daughter left some clothes (funnily enough, they were army pants and a t shirt, what ever happened to not supporting the army by not wearing calmoflage print etc!!!)..

i told her i would put them in a bag and told her she could call in for them whenever she was passing... anyway i just had my reply, hi, just keep them, *** will be out of them by next year anyway, so *** may as well just have them.

hope your all ok...x. so i take it thats her in basic words sayin... keep them cus i dont want to see you again and your apostate influence... i knew people would take this approach to our decision to not continue going to the meetings but i just am really struggling to deal with it without feeling like i have a disease that they do not want to catch :(.

bez

I just heard of a mother recently finding out her son who lives at home is to be disfellowshipped.

She said to her hubby... "i think that *** should move out, he cant live here anymore if he is disfellowshipped".... :( How wrong is that!!

I could NEVER EVER EVER turn my back on my girls, NO matter what, and that is Unconditional love always...

I never thought that the people i have known all my life could only show this conditional love, i really thought they were friends for life no matter what!!

I am greatful, however to have a friend who lives close who also has her doubts but is scared i think to break free because of repercussions of her mother, and she is great with me , that is an unconditional friend to me. And my other friend who lives an hour away, she is also awitness and has been my best friend for 15 years, she has said she could never shun me, and views me like a sister, no matter what.. that is unconditional love.. All the others are just robots i believe and maybe one day Karma will find them and do the same to them... it happend to me, i once 'shunned' my sister, and feel terrible for it. Just goes to prove the grip this 'organization' has on peoples minds... WRONG!

26

need to get over it but cant :(

by bez in

jw
friends

i text my little girls friends mum today as her daughter left some clothes (funnily enough, they were army pants and a t shirt, what ever happened to not supporting the army by not wearing calmoflage print etc!!!)..

i told her i would put them in a bag and told her she could call in for them whenever she was passing... anyway i just had my reply, hi, just keep them, *** will be out of them by next year anyway, so *** may as well just have them.

hope your all ok...x. so i take it thats her in basic words sayin... keep them cus i dont want to see you again and your apostate influence... i knew people would take this approach to our decision to not continue going to the meetings but i just am really struggling to deal with it without feeling like i have a disease that they do not want to catch :(.

bez

Thanks wasblind.

I truely believe life can only get better now .. despite being told everything will just go wrong for me now i am in 'satans world'.

I do feel happier already, and do feel much closer to my creator, but it still is obviously only human to feel a little bitter and disappointed by once really good friends (or so i thought anyway). However i know time is a healer, and i really do look forward to the day that i can just fully ignore the feelings of guilt and unworthy feeling that i have right now... i continue to pray, and am sure that has to be a step in the right direction

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need to get over it but cant :(

by bez in

jw
friends

i text my little girls friends mum today as her daughter left some clothes (funnily enough, they were army pants and a t shirt, what ever happened to not supporting the army by not wearing calmoflage print etc!!!)..

i told her i would put them in a bag and told her she could call in for them whenever she was passing... anyway i just had my reply, hi, just keep them, *** will be out of them by next year anyway, so *** may as well just have them.

hope your all ok...x. so i take it thats her in basic words sayin... keep them cus i dont want to see you again and your apostate influence... i knew people would take this approach to our decision to not continue going to the meetings but i just am really struggling to deal with it without feeling like i have a disease that they do not want to catch :(.

bez

Mad sweeney, this is the same woman who told me her daughter would no longer be able to come play with my daughter again as she would be a bad associate as no longer a witness. (despite letting her kid play with the non jw down the road).

So i guess maybe it is abit presumtious to think that that is what she meant by "your kid can keep the clothes.... (to avoid me passing your house)", but maybe you would think the same thing.

She already told me i cannot have the 'best of both worlds', ie, have friends in the 'truth' and be in the 'world'.

So i guess i just thought she was following through with her statement....

..Hence my feeling i have some sort of contagious disease... forgive me if im wrong tho!

26

need to get over it but cant :(

by bez in

jw
friends

i text my little girls friends mum today as her daughter left some clothes (funnily enough, they were army pants and a t shirt, what ever happened to not supporting the army by not wearing calmoflage print etc!!!)..

i told her i would put them in a bag and told her she could call in for them whenever she was passing... anyway i just had my reply, hi, just keep them, *** will be out of them by next year anyway, so *** may as well just have them.

hope your all ok...x. so i take it thats her in basic words sayin... keep them cus i dont want to see you again and your apostate influence... i knew people would take this approach to our decision to not continue going to the meetings but i just am really struggling to deal with it without feeling like i have a disease that they do not want to catch :(.

bez

Aww thank you Pat

I keep praying too

26

need to get over it but cant :(

by bez in

jw
friends

i text my little girls friends mum today as her daughter left some clothes (funnily enough, they were army pants and a t shirt, what ever happened to not supporting the army by not wearing calmoflage print etc!!!)..

i told her i would put them in a bag and told her she could call in for them whenever she was passing... anyway i just had my reply, hi, just keep them, *** will be out of them by next year anyway, so *** may as well just have them.

hope your all ok...x. so i take it thats her in basic words sayin... keep them cus i dont want to see you again and your apostate influence... i knew people would take this approach to our decision to not continue going to the meetings but i just am really struggling to deal with it without feeling like i have a disease that they do not want to catch :(.

bez

Thanks everyone and lol st ann, i really did think it was sanity..but they make you feel like shit!

I know time is a healer but like you said thenoblelodge, its still a bitter shock when faced with it... :(

I cant believe these people actually believe the are 'imitating' christ... HOW WRONG!!!!

26

need to get over it but cant :(

by bez in

jw
friends

i text my little girls friends mum today as her daughter left some clothes (funnily enough, they were army pants and a t shirt, what ever happened to not supporting the army by not wearing calmoflage print etc!!!)..

i told her i would put them in a bag and told her she could call in for them whenever she was passing... anyway i just had my reply, hi, just keep them, *** will be out of them by next year anyway, so *** may as well just have them.

hope your all ok...x. so i take it thats her in basic words sayin... keep them cus i dont want to see you again and your apostate influence... i knew people would take this approach to our decision to not continue going to the meetings but i just am really struggling to deal with it without feeling like i have a disease that they do not want to catch :(.

bez

I text my little girls friends mum today as her daughter left some clothes (funnily enough, they were army pants and a t shirt, what ever happened to not supporting the army by not wearing calmoflage print etc!!!).. I told her i would put them in a bag and told her she could call in for them whenever she was passing..

Anyway i just had my reply, Hi, just keep them, *** will be out of them by next year anyway, so *** may as well just have them. hope your all ok...x

So i take it thats her in basic words sayin... keep them cus i dont want to see you again and your apostate influence..

I knew people would take this approach to our decision to not continue going to the meetings but i just am really struggling to deal with it without feeling like i have a disease that they do not want to catch :(

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Family is gossiping about me, and then I get a letter

by nextdoorgirl in

so, here's your typical "i'm concerned about you" letter.

and my responses.

wanna take a look?.

bez

Hey their, i have sent you a PM ... My advice , she wont listen to just keep it brief and leave her too it... or dont reply at all... that is what she wants and your just fueling it for her gossip!

AS hard as it is to keep it brief or not even reply... you will realise in the next few days how 'satisfying' it feels... but if you do feel the need to write something.. as i say.. keep it brief, she wont know what to do!!!