Welcome anonymous4
I recommend you go to the 'Best of' topics here on this forum and read like your life depends on it...umm because it does!
You asked: "Are they really that bad???"
My answer is yes, I was one for 30 years, if all goes fine you might think 'hey all is well' but when things go bad & they eventually do, they turn EVIL on you in a heart beat. The sad thing is, it happens to most JWs but we just put it down to imperfect people and still looked at the Organisation as Gods! This keeps you in and the pain continues, then you wake up years later to the fact that you have wasted your life and wished someone told you truth about this awful religion years ago.
Learn from others here . . .
It's like shopping for a good surgeon. Just as if you would want to hear from patients of a surgeon who stuffed them up quite badly, you should learn from the stuffed up ex-JWs here and find the truth about the religion you are going to base your life around. The smiley happy JWs at the Kingdom Hall are the glossy 'info commercial' for the Watchtower Corp, here on this forum is where you'll hear about the reality of The Watchtower Society's handiwork. Run my friend, RUN!!!!!!
3Mozzies