I lost patience with 'the fade' after only one meeting!
I was going to fade, but that one meeting made me sick, I left and never returned.
I play by my rules, I don't need to DF or DA myself, That's their dorky rules, I still see my JW friends (ones that haven't dumped me) and I see all my JW family members.
The freedom of still being able to see them and plant little seeds of doubts thrills me, helping them see the BS (little bit at a time) makes me so happy.
I'm not going to leave the people I love in this Cancerous Religion without a fight.
But every person leaves/handles this differently, or gets DF without asking for it.
I would love to DA myself in the future.... once I've helped as many as possible.
I'm considering making a false confession about having committed fornication or something, on the basis that if I ever wanted to, it's easier to come back from a 'sex crime' than apostacy or a DA.
Why would you want to go back???
That blows my mind, once you know it's all BS, why go back and feed on that $hit again?
Just my 2cents . . .
3Mozzies