Definitely. I always dressed pretty snappy, but I sometimes will wear things tastefully sexy. Little cleavage if the occasion is ok. I have a couple of shorter skirts that look pretty cute with the right ensemble and dont look slutty.
mamalove
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Did your wardrobe of clothes change when you left the JW'S
by Hairyhegoat inmine did and i have not put a suit on since escaping the cult.
the mrs has given all but 1 away to the charity shops and i have loads more room in me wardrobe now.
what items of clothing did you get rid of when you got out of the cult ?
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My Self-Righteous Brother-In-Law Got Disfellowshipped
by SlipnSlide inmy brother-in-law has always been a jerk and i never liked him.
he married my sister and had a family.
not long after, he became an elder and he thought that he was the shit!
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mamalove
Wow, when did this happen? You and I have talked before, so is this a person that is at one of the local congregations? Or in a different state?
I hope your sister is ok....
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Are many couples having babies in order to be less zealous?
by trillaz inwith some, you hear them say they don't want to raise children in this system... until they have children all of a sudden.. i know of many couples who are not only on their first child but multiple ones.
or if they are newlywed, they soon.
have their first child.
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mamalove
I definitely loved having the excuse of the kids so I would not have to participate in things to the fullest extent. I admitted it freely too. Most people realized that but never said it, because they were doing it too!
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Christmas weekend with the JWs
by wifeofjw ini have been married 10 years and i have been with my family and the non-jw in laws for christmas.
this year the hubby asked me to go to a resort with a bunch of jws over the christmas week.
maybe it was not the best idea, but i love my hubby and thought once might not be too bad.
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mamalove
What kind of JW's are they? What is your idea of a good vacation? Will you still get to do some kind of Christmas?
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Take the Kids Exposed to JW Stuff to the Disney Movie, "TANGLED." Great Message For Them
by OnTheWayOut ini took my wife to this movie and pried her a bit on the way home to make her think about how sometimes the people we trust are our enemies.. the disney movie, tangled, is their spin on the repunzel story.
i'll try not to spoil their movie and still make the point of why this is a great movie to take a jw to, the older and closer to adulthood the better.
you total adults with jw adult loved ones should drag them to it.. the villain takes repunzel away from her life (as a baby) and keeps her in "the tower" for her own evil purposes.
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mamalove
My kids JW dad took them. I will have to buy it when it comes out. Thanks for the tip!
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Taking legal action against the JWs for DFing??? Need serious advice
by 2pink ini posted a thread a bit earlier about our impending judicial committee/dfing for celebrating "false religious holidays".
they have seen decor on the outside of our house, so i guess that is their "evidence" that we engage in false religion now!
my husband and i have talked and are serious about taking legal action against the jws if they try to df us against our will.
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mamalove
I too would like to know if anyone has done the legal letter and the elders still DF? My day is coming, I know. My ex has tried several times to get them to have me declare my status.
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WTBTS Downplays Marital Problems Among JWs
by JW GoneBad inthe jan 15, 2011 watchtower study edition has a study article that will be studied on march 7-13, 2011 (respect marriage as a gift from god).
in it the wtbts tries to minimize and distort the high rate of divorce among jw's.
in paragraph 4 it says in part: .
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mamalove
I bet there are just as many unhappy marriages in the rank as regular folks. Let's face it, your pickins are slim...and you mostly see people getting married very young so they can finally feel what sex is like. Poor reasonings.
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Sticky Situation - What to do?
by I<3MYGod ini have posted about my experience with the cult....so now i find myself in a difficult position.
i have left it alone for many years but i wonder what you guys think.. i faded away from the cult and stopped going for quite a while.
my older sister took it upon herself to meet with my family and discuss all my sins and actions (they were active).
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mamalove
I think you might just want to make her squirm. Feel kinda scared?? If I were you, I would write an anonymous letter from one of her Jdub friends "Dear Sis and Bro Partyanimals, I want you to know that your actions are not unknown to others. Many of your dear friends are so concerned with you going astray. Please return to Jah, and you will be blessed. If we do not see any acts befitting of repentance, we will have to follow the admonision in the scriptures and turn you in to a judicial committee so we can keep our congregation clean." Agape, your dear fellow servant of Jehovah.
That would def freak her out a little.
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"Behind Labels are Human Beings"
by leavingwt ini enjoyed this.
the author wishes to give both atheists and theists something to think about.
behind labels are human beings.
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mamalove
This was a really good post, I enjoyed it very much.
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Hey fellas,in the winter or the fall, during snowy or rainy days, does your libido increase? Do you feel more romantic?
by miseryloveselders insomething i notice about myself every fall and winter, is my sex drive tends to increase.
my romantic desires increase too, and i guess that falls under the umbrella of sex drive?
i mean, i can appreciate women during the spring and summer, on beaches, in parks, whatever.
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mamalove
This post made me smile for some reason. I hope you find love soon!