@KateWild:
" You seem so caring and considerate, I bet you wouldn't have even df'd me in the first place if we were in your cong. If all elders were like you, we would have a better organisation, but the fact is they aren't."
Perhaps true. But even the greatest intentioned, most justice-loving man would be too corrupt. :) - It is simply none of their business. The only reason they think so is because the WT has said this. Not scripture.
MMM